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Getting a dog in retirement

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Retrolady Sat 06-Feb-16 19:59:27

Hi everyone, wonder if anyone has any thoughts ... I have recently sort-of retired - doing voluntary work and not claiming pension yet. The OH is nearly retirement age. He is wondering how he is going to fill his time when he does take the plunge and I wondered if anyone else has got a dog when they retired. He always had dogs until we married so has experience, albeit not recently. I don't have any experience and I was wary of dogs as a child - not a problem now. We both love walking and being outdoors and have often commented that a dog would be lovely on our walks. Of course, I realise there is a whole lot more to it than that - training etc.... and what about getting a rescue dog. We have a lovely RSPCA centre near us, so could visit and chat to the workers there. Over to Gransnetters - especially anyone who has rehomed a dog when they (the humans, I mean) are 60+ and active. Thanks.

breeze Sun 10-Jul-16 09:49:25

Apologies Elizabeth1. Found that for you but was called away before could offer an explanation. When I want a puppy I go to the breed society for the breed I want. They will usually have a 'litter coordinator' who will know which breeders have an upcoming litter. If your sister emails via the above link, someone should be able to help her, or put her name on a list to contact her when a litter from a responsible breeder comes up as close as possible to her area. Hope that helps.

breeze Sun 10-Jul-16 08:22:17

www.norwichterrierclub.co.uk/

Elizabeth1 Sun 10-Jul-16 06:56:59

Thanks millymouge will let my sister know about that. smile

rubylady Sun 10-Jul-16 04:10:23

Hi retrolady I have a little doggie, a Maltese/Yorkshire cross who is 7 years old. She is the best thing that has ever happened to me, a constant companion and my best friend. She is with me if I am feeling unwell and accompanies me on journeys and holidays. I have just bought Philleas Dogg's Guide to Dog Friendly Holidays in Britain which has hotels, b & b's, pubs, gardens to visit etc with your dog. I have just got a car again after a break and now have a dog carrier seat for my doggie in the car to keep her safe and allow her to look out of the window. She has clothes (jumpers and coats mainly) and plenty of baskets, fluffy blankets and lots of toys. She is wonderful but it took me two years to look round and find the right dog. She was 6 weeks when I got her, she was tiny, only 12" long now. Just take your time, like others have said, make sure you don't buy from a puppy farm or anyone who may have bought from a puppy farm. See both parents, make sure the puppy has been with the family in the home and around children, handled lots and socialised well. Look on Pets4homes or, if you want a rescue dog, then decide on the breed and see if they do their own rescue society for the breed. Maybe an old or retired working dog?

Let us know what you decide and if you do get a loving new friend, please show us some pics. My doggie is on my profile. Take care. smile

Christinefrance Sat 09-Jul-16 22:29:51

Hi retrolady a dog is a wonderful companion in retirement, gives you a reason to get up in the morning and to go out for walks in all weathers. We have three dogs, two are rescue dogs and all three give us great pleasure. We did make a conscious decision that we would not holiday much or go away often. Kennel and vet fees need some thought before you decide.I think there are too many people breeding dogs at inflated prices whilst unwanted dogs languish in rescue centres. The staff in the centre will try to match the dog to you as far as possible.
Your home will be messy and your dog will be in charge but you will get such love and pleasure in return. Go for it.

millymouge Sat 09-Jul-16 22:12:01

Contact the Kennel Club, they keep a register of all approved breeders of all breeds. Never buy without seeing mum and if possible dad.

Elizabeth1 Sat 09-Jul-16 22:00:46

My sister is retiring soon and says she would love a puppy as it would keep her interested in walking and stop her from feeling lonely. She's been looking into all sorts of information relating to buying a puppy but can't find any terrier breeders in Scotland. Can anyone help her identify a reputable Norwich terrier breeder somewhere close to home in Fife, Scotland.

whitewave Wed 13-Apr-16 14:24:52

oldgoat definitely see the puppy with its mother and even its father if possible. Ideally the puppies will be socialised with humans and not kept in kennels. I'm not sure about cockapoos but we got our Cairn from a Kennel Club listed breeder.

Look at the mother and ask questions like how old is she, how many litters has she had. You can tell from the look of the mother how well she is being cared for. When we arrived to view the puppies, Mum was sunning herself on the back door step and puppies were in the house and prevented from getting to her by a baby gate in order to give her a break. She was clean, plump and looked well cared for even though she had 6 or 8 puppies. I also research the potential genetic problems and make sure the puppy has a clean bill of health from the vet. For example, Cairns have genetic tendency to have problems with liver shunts - whatever that is! - so I ensured that he had been tested for this problem and given a clean bill of health. Research your chosen breed and ask loads of questions.

With regard to rescue dogs. My opinion is that to a large extent this is something that someone with a good level of experience should take on, and always be prepared for behavioural issues. So many of these dogs have been neglected either physically or emotionally or socially and it is extremely hard work getting them up to scratch. Of course you may strike lucky and have no problems whatsoever - much more likely with a young pup.

HildaW Wed 13-Apr-16 13:42:49

Many dog re-homing charities are often looking for people to visit and walk some of the long-term guests also you can foster a dog so that you still have all the back up of the charity and the dog is still technically theirs. A friend of mine does this regularly for one of the retired greyhound charities.

Tricia89 Wed 13-Apr-16 11:42:21

Beware the Cocker Spaniel. Mine is devious, manipulative, trashes the house and garden, refuses to interact with other dogs and has to know where I am at all times. Obviously, after nearly 14 years of this abuse, I adore her.

Tizliz Tue 09-Feb-16 20:42:25

If you decide on a rescue dog you will only get one if you never leave it for more than 4 hours. I do think this is a bit harsh of the RSPCA but I can't understand why people who go to work all day have dogs. Our dogs come to work with us, and are never left on their own for more than 4 hours though this means that we can't go out shopping and have lunch out - but they are worth it.

The best place to look for a breeder is the Kennel Club's web site . All the breeders there are checked out. You don't have to show the dogs.

Veron Tue 09-Feb-16 18:49:09

The Cinnamon Trust is always looking for volunteers in all areas. They help folks over 60 or people terminally ill to keep their pets with support. They are always looking for short term and permanent foster placements for dogs and cats as well as dog walkers. This is helping the dogs and gives people peace of mind when they can't look after their pets any more for what ever reason.

watermeadow Tue 09-Feb-16 18:26:03

A dog is the best thing about retirement. You're at home a lot so can have one whereas you can't if working full-time.
A dog gets you out every day, whatever the weather and keeps you company. It costs less than most hobbies and you'll make lots of new dog-walking friends.
Take great care choosing a suitable dog if you have young grandchildren.

nigglynellie Tue 09-Feb-16 14:05:38

judthepud2, your little girl is exactly like our little girl! We lost our old show cocker in 2014, and at the time we both swore that we would not have another, BUT, 14 months later quite a bit against my better judgment, as I felt we were too old, I was persuaded to just have a look at a baby girl who as looking for a new home, and the rest is history!! Yes she is a tie, yes she makes a mess, yes she costs a fair amount of money, but in return she has given us so much joy and unconditional love, she is the reason for getting up in the morning, reason for going for a constitutional rain or shine, she makes us laugh when we feel down and has generally brightened our lives. However like another poster we have got the assurance of our family that they would look after Cassie should anything happen to us. I think this is wise as we are both in our 70's and you never know!!

rubylady Tue 09-Feb-16 06:15:05

I have a very beautiful little dog, see my profile, and as her t-shirt says, she is my favourite child grin. She gets up with me when I am not well and is always up for a cuddle and doesn't judge me (unlike my son.)

I would definately get one, and if you holiday in this country, then you can find suitable accommodation which takes dogs too. I take mine every time, I have never left her with anyone or in a kennel, I just wouldn't. We used to when we had our dog when I was married, we left her with his parents but my darling Maggie hasn't been used to being left with anyone and so now, at nearly 7 years old, I would never leave her.

GrannyR Mon 08-Feb-16 18:45:09

I wanted a Westie when I retired . My husband didn't want any dog . He finally gave in and now that little dog is the love of our lives and he who never wanted a dog even buys her a birthday cake ?

NonnaW Mon 08-Feb-16 17:01:03

One of the reasons for us taking early retirement was so we could have dogs. We got a springer spaniel puppy from a lovely breeder, she really cares about her dogs and keeps in touch with everyone who has one of her pups. We took him to training school from about 12 weeks old and kept it up. 2 years later we got a cocker spaniel pup, who is a real bundle of energy. She also went to training. It forces us to be up and out at around 7.30 each morning, and we take them for longer walks in e afternoon. If nothing else, it keeps us fit, but we have too met some really nice people when dog walking. They are a tie but we have found a lovely kennels nearby where they now go of we are away. Yes they involve a cost but so does everything. Despite what we say about them, we wouldn't be without them.

NanaandGrampy Mon 08-Feb-16 15:32:19

I totally agree that children need training just as much as dogs Lizzy .

We actually do let our little ones wander round with food but we trained our little dog that food in the hand unless offered in a certain way is just not his. As a cavalier he thinks with his tummy so this was a big skill for him to learn.

If it's on the floor it's fair game but that's where training the little ones came in. They know the rules too.

They love to feed Sam and he has a plethora of tricks which he willingly performs for treats. So they know how to feed him properly too. And we always use 'gentle hands' .

It's a pleasure to see them together. But I agree, we never leave them alone together.

lizzypopbottle Mon 08-Feb-16 13:34:16

Sorry to put a negative slant on this. This is GN but the presence of children has hardly been mentioned. Please remember that babies and young children should never be left alone with a dog, no matter how well trained, gentle and biddable you think your pet is. That might seem obvious but it's easy to think someone else is attending to it and to let your vigilance slip. It's doubly vital with a rescue dog whose history you may not know. I'd advise that children have absolutely no food away from the table if your dog is interested in human food (and what dog isn't?) Don't let children wander about with food in their hand.
Young children need to be trained how to treat a dog. Their patting and stroking can be enthusiastic and they often have toys in their hands!
I have a much loved, 4 year old Springer Spaniel and I worry about what could happen to my little grandson. As it happens, we live a long way from my daughter so my visits don't usually include my dog. They haven't visited here since the lad's been on his feet but they will come, inevitably. It's a worry. I love my dog but I love my grandson more.

Wurzelernie Mon 08-Feb-16 12:47:14

Couldn't live without dogs. We have one active Jack Russell now,, we had two but our darling 17 year old died and I miss him every day. JRs are wonderful dogs. Can recommend them but please try and get a rescue one, don't pay hundreds to a breeder. There are so many dogs who need homes.

NanaandGrampy Mon 08-Feb-16 12:00:13

* Pollyparrot* are our dogs related ????

We say the same thing to Sam and he does the big eyes, hard done by look before getting in his basket!!

What does make me laugh is that I wanted him, I chose him , I take care of him but he ADORES DH. When we come home I unlock the door and walk in and Sam walks straight past me to get to 'himself' who is greeted like he's been gone for years. I'm very much an afterthought smile

pollyparrot Mon 08-Feb-16 11:46:17

Yes, our dog fits in with our lives, not the other way around. As I'm retired I'm with her a lot obviously, but I think nothing of leaving her to her own devices. We sometimes take her to the pub with us but mostly she stays behind. We just say to her "you're not coming" and her head goes down and she slinks to her basket. It's all done to make us feel guilty and it works. She's usually still in her basket when we get back, but is soon out and greeting us with delirious delight. Oh how lovely it is to have a dog, so pleased to see you!

Puppies are just the most gorgeous little things, closely followed by foals. I'd love a puppy again sometime soon.

Anya Mon 08-Feb-16 10:30:15

Jude what a lovely puppy. I'm getting all puppy broody ??

NanaandGrampy Mon 08-Feb-16 10:18:32

I've come to the conclusion that you are all far lovelier to your dogs than me grin .

Sam keeps his legs crossed till DH gets up each morning ( between 7-9) no getting up to Sams clock . Although If desperate he would bark and wake us .

We often leave him for a few hours to go shopping . He usually ends up taking himself back to his crate with his mate marmite and getting a snooze.

I would say that we started training him to be left from 8 weeks though and I could leave him all day If I had to although I don't obviously .

We love him endlessly but he did have to fit into our lives rather than us alter our life for him .

NanaandGrampy Mon 08-Feb-16 10:12:27

Let us know Granjura if you get a response to your enquiry? I'd be very interested .