I have had poodles (Standards and Toys) for 20-years. They are not usually unpredictable at all! They are very active when young, so need games and exercise. They are not usually jumpy and nervous though. It’s a bit worrying that s/he is reluctant to come to you sometimes. If she only ever growls when she is dropping off to sleep and no longer wants stroking, she could just be communicating, rather than threatening. I have a little toy who growls if my arm brushes against him whilst asleep, but he adores me and would never dream of biting me! When he first started doing that, I ruffled his head and touched his face whilst reassuring him, just to confirm it was not aggression. Please don’t despair about your little one. I would suggest at least two walks a day, with off lead play to work off energy. Lots of recall training with tiny favourite food items as treats (forget dog treats, think cheese, liver etc). Always tell her/him they are a good dog and stroke them when you give the treat, so eventually that itself will be a reward. Do it at home so s/he gets used to coming when called. Then outside on walks. Treat every time at first, then, slowly less often, but not in a pattern, so s/he can’t predict when s/he will get a treat. You can also use a favourite toy as a treat. Try to teach fetch (lessons on youtube). If s/he comes from a caring breeder, discuss the situation with them. If s/he came from someone who doesn’t care and was all about the money, that may explain why she is nervous as the pups may not have been exposed to normal home sounds etc in those first 8-weeks. Oh yes, importantly, get her/him used to you taking away the food dish away (not too far) whilst they are eating. You can do this by putting a few bits of a tasty treat in the dish as you take it away and giving it straight back. Then stroke him/her for a couple of moments whilst they eat. Doing this teaches them that we are in charge, but a source of giving and care rather than one to provoke anxiety. Also handle her mouth briefly regularly followed by a treat. Good luck and feel free to PM any time if it might help.