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Dearly beloved, departed cat

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grandtanteJE65 Sun 22-Aug-21 12:59:30

It is nearly a week since you died, and we are recovering.

I am glad to say the young cat you found and trained as your successor is taking his new duties very seriously indeed. He apologises for not attending your burial. He was so horrified when he saw your dead body that he ran away and hid.

Papa apologises for not going to the vet with us, but both you and I knew he would funk that, didn't we?

He helped dig your grave and filled it in.

I'm not sure how these things work, but I hope you are now reunited with your brother and that your two toy mice I placced in your grave have been transformed into real, eternal mice you can chase around the Garden of Eden.

Did you really tell the youngster that one of his new duties is warming my bed? He does it well, considerately lying precisely where I place my bottom when I lie down.

No mice have been found in the cellar or attics and no tom cats have attempted to move in either.

Miss you! But as there is no time where you are now, only eternity, you won't notice how long it may be before we meet again.

Dear oet-lovers., you don't need to comment. Trold was 14 and enjoyed life until last Sunday, when he wasn't in pain, but where we knew what Monday would bring.

Aveline Tue 24-Aug-21 16:44:44

Aww puss. I'm glad he's got you and you've got him.

grandtanteJE65 Tue 24-Aug-21 16:36:00

His protege has rather unfortunately in my opinion got used to being called "Sorte" which is the Danish equivalent of "Blackie" which admittedly has always been popular for black cats, rather like calling ginger cats Ginger.

I tried to change it feeling that these days it might cause offence, but he obstinately refuses to answer to anything else!

He obviously himself associates his name with the only people who have ever fed him, a neigbour whose own cat would not accept him, and me. So Sorte he is!

Aveline Mon 23-Aug-21 16:14:04

Vets nowadays seem to be much more understanding and kind. It sounds like yours was grandtanteJE65. My more recent times when having beloved cats PTS have been much better handled. Last time the vet kindly let us out the back door as we were crying so much and didn't want to go out via the waiting room.
Sorry. This is Trold's thread. What is his protege's name?

TillyTrotter Mon 23-Aug-21 15:44:15

I also cried buckets while one of my beloved cats was PTS at the Vet’s.
I’m glad the raw heartbreak is subsiding a little grandtante
and will leave you with happy memories.
Aveline ? so sorry for your experience too.

grandtanteJE65 Mon 23-Aug-21 14:32:47

Thank you all for your sympathy.

What a truly awful experience Aveline.

My young vet (he could be my grandson easily age-wise) was so kind, taking all the necessary time and checking twice that Trold had died peacefully before stroking him and saying , " sleep well".

He didn't even mind me practically drowning his consulting-room in my tears.

We're feeling better now the first week is over.

3dognight Sun 22-Aug-21 19:05:10

That’s sad Averline, but at least he died in your arms flowers

TwiceAsNice Sun 22-Aug-21 18:36:45

Grandtante so sorry cats are so gorgeous and special. I dread anything happening to mine although Amie is relatively young yet and healthy.

Aveline poor you your vet wasn’t very compassionate at all. Pets burrow into our hearts and become part of the family. Love to all who have lost a beloved pet

Aveline Sun 22-Aug-21 17:44:38

The first time I made that sad trip to the vets with dear old Podge I was just a schoolgirl. My Mum dropped us off. The very matter of fact vet gave him an injection and I was sent to the waiting room with Podge as he died in my arms. Looking back that was an awful thing to do. The people in the waiting room were very kind and obviously knew what was going on. I remember a kind workman sitting next to me produced a mouse from his pocket to try to cheer me up. Then the vet came back, said, 'Is he away?', and took poor Podge from my arms. I was dismissed. sad

GrannySomerset Sun 22-Aug-21 15:50:24

I too have been the one to make the last sad journey to the vet with five cats over nearly sixty years and sympathise so much. We have loved all our felines but the gallant Oliver, who had an international fan club, is the most missed, even thirty years down the line.

Ladyleftfieldlover Sun 22-Aug-21 15:48:08

I love that Trold has trained up his ‘replacement’. They really are part of the family. The last time we had to make that one way trip to the Vet was in 2010 and it was China, who was 18 years old, and our longest live cat. My husband was abroad at the time and my elder son in Iraq. I thought I would do the whole think quietly and let them all know aftwards. Too late, my younger son rang me for a chat at work so I told him the situation. He was on the next bus from London. That night we sat in the garden with China and a bottle of fizz. We toasted China and the next morning took him to the Vet. Son insisted on cross-examining the Vet just to make sure China really was very unwell. Afterwards I went to work, dropping son off at the bus stop. Of course I then had to tell OH and daughter what had happened and let son know in Iraq. It’s never easy, is it? Three months later Milo and Ripley became part of our family.

GagaJo Sun 22-Aug-21 15:42:18

So sorry grandtante65. Our beloved pets stay in our hearts forever, don't they? You gave him a loving home and a nice life.

I remember my gone but still loved cats and dogs.

My big, black Labrador boy, from my childhood. Always enthusiastic. So loving.

Our gentle female Lab. The perfect pet. Soft, kind and brave. Would have defended us to the death. The whole family grieved for her.

My little black female American cat. The boss of the boys despite being half their size.

My big, fat, black, soft, boy cat. So cuddly and gentle, but a demon hunter.

My big, rangy, scrawny black lad with a white star. Soft and kind. Couldn't retract his claws. A highly intelligent boy.

They'll always be in our hearts.

Squiffy Sun 22-Aug-21 15:31:36

Grandtante So sorry to read of Trold’s departure. He was obviously a very considerate cat and made sure to train the newcomer and ensure that he’s up to scratch!

Gwyneth Sun 22-Aug-21 15:30:22

What a lovely post grandtante. I have a cat and they have a special place in our lives and I’m sure we mean a lot to them too. ?

nightowl Sun 22-Aug-21 15:28:01

So sad Grandtante, and such a lovely tribute. My almost 19 year old boy is curled at my feet. He is very thin now, and very deaf, but still seems to enjoy life and can still jump on the sofa and the kitchen windowsill. I know it can’t be too long until we have to say goodbye, but I dread the day. He has outlived two other cats and one dog, all still missed, but he has been the longest by far and I really can’t remember life before him.

FannyCornforth Sun 22-Aug-21 15:03:01

My sympathies and a hug Grandtante
He was lucky to have you and you gave him a wonderful life ♥️ flowers

Shandy57 Sun 22-Aug-21 14:21:57

My sympathies, I still miss all of my lovely cats xx

Grandmajean Sun 22-Aug-21 14:16:46

My sympathyGrandtante
For many years we have had cats and it's heartbreaking when they die. I love all animals but the ones who live with us are all part of the family

BladeAnnie Sun 22-Aug-21 13:52:34

RIP little kitty ? ??

tickingbird Sun 22-Aug-21 13:48:10

Our pets bring us so much joy but leave us far too soon. Lovely post OP. I think of my late dogs mosts days and like to think we’ll meet again smile

Nortsat Sun 22-Aug-21 13:42:48

? ?

Go peacefully over the rainbow bridge, little one. ?

TwoWolves Sun 22-Aug-21 13:32:59

It's horrendous, isn't it? [brokenheart] flowers

Charleygirl5 Sun 22-Aug-21 13:29:13

Tara was PTS in January of this year and I still miss her. She was a superb companion.

sodapop Sun 22-Aug-21 13:28:28

Lovely post Grandetante our pets have a special place in our hearts don't they. We lost our two older dogs recently and have two rescue dogs now. We still remember all the fun and pain we had with the first two and talk about them often.

SueDonim Sun 22-Aug-21 13:28:07

❤️

Aveline Sun 22-Aug-21 13:26:57

A lovely post but so sad. I remember hearing about how Trold recruited and trained an assistant cat. Sounds like he did a good job. RIP Trold. thanks