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We’ve got twin calicos. One is friendly with everyone and the other only loves us and hides if we have visitors. They are both very gentle. They are both rescue cats, they are our little loves , we adore them!
My calico is soft and gentle. My Bengal x oriental was just plain nasty.
My lovely rescue cat of 13 years is gentle, agreeable and friendly...but it took about 2 years of patient caring for her to retrust humans, of all the rescue cats I have looked after she is the sweetest and will probably be my last.
Neurotic with a bit of agreeableness.
She wouldnt win any intelligence tests either.
Ours are both very agreeable, friendly to all and very cuddly. They are archetypal Maine Coon gentle giants. We are so lucky.
My two cats are completely different and I can't really fit either of them into those categories.
Senior cat was a rescue kitten who hadn't been handled as a kitten. He was terrified of people and would attack a hand that came anywhere near him. Once he got over that he became the complete opposite and can't get enough of human affection and company. I think his great need for affection expresses deep insecurity.
Junior cat, also a rescue cat, was used to being handled but is very aloof and scared of strangers. She will come for a cuddle on her terms, 5 minutes of purrs and affection and then she's off.. I'm the only person she'll come to like this. Senior cat will go to anyone for a fuss.
They're both very companionable when I'm outside, following me around the garden and yard, but I've rarely had a cat that wasn't sociable in that way.
My cat is a twenty year old mewling and whingeing feline. She constantly witters at you as if she is a grumpy old woman!! Sounds like me!!
They do say animals resemble their owners - it's not true!! My cat has retained her colourful coat of fur whereas I am decidedly grey!!
Ooooo my two were both strays. Girl is warm and friendly. I guess it's just her nature. Boy is neurotic but fine with family. He has a brother from an earlier litter with a very similar personality.
My two gorgeous boys were both out and out agreeables. We miss them both a lot, always on our laps, wound round our necks or clambering up us in order to reach our arms. ❤️❤️❤️
If I fits I sits!
I have a neurotic but madly affectionate and loves to be picked up and hugged, feels safe in my arms. We have and an agreeable who will pit up with anything is brilliant with children and would happily be a pillow. Not sure about the other 2. They weren't socialised as kittens and don't speak any human. 1 is very sweet and gentle but will never be a lap cat and only tolerates short periods of stroking when she is in the mood and rarely purrs. The other is human aggressive and will try to kill you if you pick her up or stroke her too long. The only time she is affectionate is when you are just out of the bath, then she loves all over you purring like mad.
I absolutely love them all regardless
The agreeable cat is the only one not adopted so 3 had experiences we don't know about
Shinamae
My cat is just over a year old and I think he is a bit of a delinquent. He lies in wait for me, jumps out and bites my legs, and then when I’m sitting on the sofa he will jump up and bite my hands I have been told this is a sign of affection, but I’m not too sure.
His name is scratchybitey….🐱🐱🐱🐱
Getting ready to attack!!
My cat is just over a year old and I think he is a bit of a delinquent. He lies in wait for me, jumps out and bites my legs, and then when I’m sitting on the sofa he will jump up and bite my hands I have been told this is a sign of affection, but I’m not too sure.
His name is scratchybitey….🐱🐱🐱🐱
We have two cats totally different personalities. We promised their breeders they would be house cats, and it works for them, with lots of toys and attention, so no bodies in the house. I am not sure how to classify them with five limited descriptions.
One came from a breeder who described her kittens as 'bomb proof' - pretty accurate, nothing fazes him. The other is a bit shyer with strangers, though does not take long to be chewing their hair or shoelaces. The pair of them have periods of crazy, reckless behaviour, charging round the house, up and down stairs at top speed, knocking things flying.
Their playfights can occasionally get our of hand with yelps of pain, but they are soon washing each other again. They are both exceptionally friendly, wanting to greet any stranger entering the house. They behave like dogs, rushing to greet us at the door when they hear the car come back, and crying outside the door if one of us goes to the loo. If one of them gets shut in a room, the other one will come and tell us.
The “feline five” personality traits, according to earlier researchers, are neuroticism (insecure, shy and anxious), dominance (bullying and aggressive to other cats), impulsiveness (erratic and reckless behaviour), agreeableness (gentle and friendly towards humans) and extroversion.
I have a neurotic and an agreeable with a touch of neurotic.
In the past, I've had mainly agreeable cats. Although I did have one conundrum. He was an agreeable (nicknamed Tim nice but dim) but was the most natural hunter I've ever seen, quite contradicting the extrovert personality type. He adored having his armpits tickled. Didn't need a cat box in the car, just sat peacefully on the passenger seat.
www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/mar/25/cats-hunt-feline-personalities
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