grannyro
My grandson and his partner have recently got a puppy and when we had an early Xmas get together they came along with not just puppy pads but also a "pram" for the puppy (plus a coat and snacks!) They might as well have had a baby ! He was very good with the pads but I don't believe he has been trained to go outside yet so I don't know how the transition will go. (Before everyone said "ugh", he did only wee on the mat, he does go outside for a no.2!)
They’re making problems for themselves if they go on to have children if they treat a puppy like a baby. When I had my first dog I’d read how spaniels can get jealous of a new baby and, much as I wanted to kiss and cuddle her she was treated very much as a dog from day one. When I did have a baby a couple of years later I then made a huge fuss of her. I was very aware at the time that she was a baby substitute and, even though at the time I didn’t think I could have children I didn’t want to risk it. Since then I’ve known of several instances where people have had to rehome a dog when they have children. Having said that, well done them for being so considerate. Puppy pads do work if done properly but I’m pretty sure my whippets would have just looked on them as something else to rip up. I wish I wasn’t too old to have another puppy; reading this thread has somehow made me want to forget what hard work puppies are and desperately want one, especially as my current dog is so sociable but has no doggie friends.



