hello girls,,,,,thanks for all your comments nice to know grans care,,,,i have tried getting him out,,,he only likes cricket that takes him out of the house weekends saterday sometimes sunday,,,,,,,i tried taking him swimming,,,,that dont work,,,gardening,,,,nope,............i ask him if anything is wrong he says he is fine,,,,,,,,,he comes out with me sometimes but he isnt interested in anything really, i tried taking him to london 45 mins away on the train,,,,to the v and a museum, i said we will go and have lunch in harrodds,,,,then walk up to museum,,,it was a nice day, he didnt want to even look in harrods windows,,,,,he enjoyed the museum,,,,we had a nice lunch in there and then he wanted to come home,,,,,i said lets go to convent garden,,,,but no he wanted to come home,,,,,,so kinda spoilt my day,,,,,i wont do it again,,,i will go on my own, he has no male freinds all the people he knows are all my freinds,...............he doesnt look after his self,,,i am getting fed up with it all ,,,,,like i said he has burst my bubble,,,,,,,,,he is retired of course,,,cant get him motivated.....so i will just leave him, he is a quiet man .i think that says it all,,,,,i said lets drive up to scotland stop where we like,,,,,,,im not going all that way he said all grumpy,,,,so blow it,,,,,im off on my own,,,,,,,hope your well here is a hug,,xx,,,angiebaby,,,,( angela )