interesting thread. I have a few friends of long standing, don't see each other often but enjoy each other's company enormously ( I hope it is mutual)when we do meet up. I sometimes feel guilty for not having many friends, I read on Facebook ( yes, I know....) of others who are all out and about and doing wonderful things.....I don't necessarily envy them, but then worry why I don't envy them. I am happy with a few friends and acquaintances and DH and I are good buddies, but I do worry about the time when one of us is on our own. It is hard to describe, I am quite happy but feel that I should be doing more. I still work, so enjoy my weekends and evenings just pottering, going out for supper etc.,but will that be enough when I eventually retire? Mum cant stand being on her own for more than a day, has to always have company, whereas I am happy with a good book....but will that always be enough? I suppose what I am saying is should I start investing my time in building a larger network for the future?