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Father's Day Cards.

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rubylady Tue 09-Jun-15 13:17:14

I have been looking online for cards for my dad for Father's Day, for dad and granddad. I have found some lovely ones and have placed an order.

While looking, I found Father's Day cards for Mums showing appreciation for mums doing the job of both parents. My children have, at times, sent me a card on Father's Day, which they made. This is the first time I have seen them to buy so many must be sending mums thanks on this day. I think it is lovely if you are the only parent doing the work which would be so much easier if done by a good dad.

Do other mums/grans receive cards on Father's Day?

shysal Tue 09-Jun-15 13:32:59

www.ebay.co.uk/itm/Fathers-day-card-Comedy-Humour-Single-Mum-/261918958695?pt=LH_DefaultDomain_3&hash=item3cfb962467
I came across this one on Ebay, never seen one before. The nearest I have come to receiving one is a Mother's Day greeting from my cats. They are very clever!
I find the shops only stock cards for men showing beer,cricket, football or cars. Much more choice on line.

grumppa Tue 09-Jun-15 13:48:39

So will the next step be fathers' cards for Mothering Sunday?

rubylady Tue 09-Jun-15 14:52:05

I don't see why not grumppa, I have a friend who is a full time single dad bringing up three children, two daughters and a son. Why shouldn't he be appreciated for doing both jobs of mum and dad because it is bloody hard work not to have a partner to share responsibility with.

Maggiemaybe Tue 09-Jun-15 15:37:36

I don't get it really. Surely you're either Dad or Mum, even if you do have to be all things to the children. Getting two special days seems over the top. Similar to someone I know who bought presents for both of her children on both birthdays. I couldn't see the point of that either.

rosesarered Tue 09-Jun-15 16:13:09

nope, I can't see the point of it either.If a lone Father bringing up children, they send Dad a card for Fathers Day and ditto when it's Mothers Day for lone mums.Simples.It's just a bad excuse to flog loads of cards.

ninathenana Wed 10-Jun-15 10:57:45

I don't see the point either. As has been said, just another money maker.
I do however, think it's lovely for children to make their own if they wish. If I was in that position I'd be really chuffed if my children wanted to show that they understood the duel roll I was playing. I don't think they should feel the need to buy one if they see it in a shop though.

janerowena Wed 10-Jun-15 11:04:54

I think it's a lovely idea. At least they are available if the DCs want them, someone must have wanted to be able to do it at some time which would have prompted the making of them.

Maggiemaybe Thu 11-Jun-15 17:29:02

I doubt it. I should think one of the card companies will have come up with this one at one of their monthly meetings. I shouldn't be talking the idea down though - my DD2 is a card designer! grin

Ana Thu 11-Jun-15 18:03:45

I think you're right though, Maggiemaybe. It's just another money-making exercise and of course as soon as the children of single parents see these cards they'll feel guilty if they don't buy one...hmm

Perhaps we should just abandon Mother's Day and Father's Day and just have a Parent's or Parents' Day...grin

Ana Thu 11-Jun-15 18:05:40

They already have Step Parent cards.

Pippa000 Fri 12-Jun-15 09:14:21

Did I read somewhere there was a Grandparents day as well?? Is this yet another money making idea imported from America?

rubylady Sat 20-Jun-15 23:57:40

Well, my DS has had the dirt dished on him when things have been going bad but nothing much is said when he is behaving well so I thought I would say something positive about him.

He bought me The Very Best of Glenn Miller today for my Father's Day present, he couldn't even wait until tomorrow to give it to me, he was excited to see my reaction. It was a lovely surprise as I have loved this music for many years so it was very nice to think he had thought of me while he was out earlier.

I know it's not all about buying things for people, god, I was done out of thousands in my divorce and I don't care, I am not about money at all, it's about being appreciated and not being taken for granted. No matter how this is shown, home made card, paper flowers my daughter once made me because I had hay fever, it's the thought. And imagination of being able to come up with something that means something to someone but doesn't cost the earth.

By the way, there was a huge thread about Mother's Day but not much for Father's Day?

Happy Father's Day to all the Daddies and Granddaddies out there for tomorrow. smile

Smileless2012 Mon 22-Jun-15 19:19:50

I was so relieved when the postman delivered a card from our DS in Aus. for DH for father's day. It isn't father's day there until September so well done son for making your dad's day.

A son so far away making sure his dad is remembered and his brother just down the road, who does nothing for the dad who loves him so much despite the way he has and continues to treat us.

rubylady Fri 26-Jun-15 00:29:41

Well done to your son in Australia. Sometimes you have to draw a line under the children who treat you like dirt but admire your husband still loving and trying for your other son. I hope he had a lovely day. smile

Smileless2012 Fri 26-Jun-15 15:09:28

He did rubylady, thank yousmile