Abandoned

I'm out of the loop, here. What has been deleted? Oh, I suppose you can't say if it has been censored.

Ooh! How scarey is that?

Ana I think we know who's been 'running to teacher'

Well of course, we all know about that Ana no complacency here ,but do please stop claiming the moral high ground because you certainly added fuel to the fire.

NotTooOld I'm quite happy to tell you what triggered all this ... I commented that I thought a post which began 'Ladies! Ladies! ' was a tad patronising.

Yes. There has been some truly pathetic deleting done by GNHQ hasn't there. Why do it bit by bit HQ? Can you not read the thread through and decide for yourselves? Do you have to wait for demands for tit for tat deleting? Pathetic of you!

Time for me to be off perhaps. I don't think I want to be part of a forum with such wishy washy HQrs.

I'm not claiming the moral high ground tigger. I leave that to others who have far more expertise.

NotToo I'm happy to tell you.

I commented that a post that began 'Ladies! Ladies!' was not acceptable. Not the whole post, just the patronising first two word .

So, for some reason it was deleted!

I'll probably be banned from GN for ever now!

Anya - It is patronising, agreed. Perhaps best to let others disagree, though?

Well done tigger. I hope you make some good contributions to the threads.

Spot on jingl

Hollow laugh...

NotToo I'm glad you agree it's patronising. I'm quite happy for others to disagree that was never a problem. Disagreeing is fine. Name calling and aggression are not!!

Anyway I'm off to another threas. Follow at your peril little stripes creature.

I am pretty new to these threads but I thought it was supposed to be about the DM article about grandparents not seeing their children or grandchildren

I'll add to your list NanKate

My lover(s) - only if you are in Devon and not to be taken literally
Me ducks

Oh tinaf1, if only!!!
Sadly, it has got beyond silly.

Sadly, it has got beyond silly
Sorry me duck, just trying to cheer everyone up a bit

Possibly the grandparents wouldn't notice the DC or DGC anyway, they are too busy on here .....
ie "we visited granny/grandad and they were just on their iPads all afternoon"

No rosequartz your post was sanity itself compared to some earlier posts!

It is the way the word Ladies can be used that can be a problem.

Personally I like the word. But if it is used to boss others then that is a problem.

"Boss" ... just how old are we?

There's nothing wrong with the words 'calm' and 'down' per se. But when you add in 'dear' then you conjure up the late and patronising Micheal Winner in that irritating advert soon

Or David Cameron's comment to Angela Eagle!

Boss is a verb is it not?
So it can be used for all ages.

Actually I agree with my overall point in the last post, but the words are probably not strictly accurate. I will leave someone else who is good with words to sort it out if they want to.

So how do you address a group of largely women on here if you want to refer to them all and not be appearing to be singling out an individual.

You Lot? You guys? People seem to hate that. Ladies Ladies is out. Girls Girls is out. "Now now children play nicely now" would be slammed. I doubt if a would make a difference to such sensitive souls.

Perhaps we should all agree on a suitable phrase. I really can't see how this thread has got into this state. However the task of trying to agree on one would probably make things worse.

All this is quite apart from a sureal very private spat that seems to be breaking out on several different threads at the same time.

The original post was at first a sensible discussion.
Off to happier things life is too short.