On Gransnet, understandably we hear so much about the problems Gransnetters have with DiL, but I do think, now and again, we should say a word in praise of all the DiL (& MiL) who never get a mention because they have never caused any problems and, to the contrary, are a wonderful addition to our families when they join them.
I would like to say a good word for both DiL and MiL. I had a lovely MiL. DH was an only child, so she could have been a possessive difficulty, but she wasn't. At times I found her easier to confide in than my own mother, kind, supportive and unjudgmental.
As far as DDiL is concerned, I couldn't have better. It still amazes me that someone as nice as her could possible want to be married to DS who, at times, can try the patience of a saint. She is a marvellous and loving mother, far more quiet and patient with the children than I ever was. We share a similar taste in clothes and interests and, when we can, have lovely girly days out, usually including DD.
