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Civil Relationships -v- Marriage

(83 Posts)
Nelliemoser Wed 06-Jan-16 16:38:16

I have no actual idea what the legal differences between civil partnership and marriage are. Does anyone on here know?

It might just be useful if someone could define these before the discussion continues.

Wendysue Wed 06-Jan-16 15:32:02

Funny, how the legalization of gay marriage changes the whole conversation about civil relationships.

There definitely seems to be a contradiction in the pro-civil relationships argument, doesn't there? "We don't need to be married but we need the protection of marriage." Odd.

I haven't been asked to sign this petition (yet). But I don't sign online petitions, so I wouldn't do it, no matter.

Anniebach Wed 06-Jan-16 15:26:28

Irritates me, they want to change the law because they believe they don't need a marriage certificate to prove they are dedicated to commitment , just pop into local registry office , get married and shut up

mollie Wed 06-Jan-16 13:15:32

I thought civil partnerships would disappear once marriage became all-encompassing. Apparently not. In my ignorance, I have no idea why this is seen as preferential to becoming legally married. I'm baffled too... I don't plan to sign because I'm pro-marriage and the choice is to opt in or not.

Alima Wed 06-Jan-16 11:23:05

I thought the same as you annsixty. Life is bewildering!

annsixty Wed 06-Jan-16 11:14:34

I don't understand this. Is the suggestion that anyone of any sex can have a civil partnership with no legal consequences when it breaks down. Any partnership needs dissolving with a share of assets etc .
I always thought civil partnerships were brought in for same sex partners to have some legal standing when they could not marry.

mcem Wed 06-Jan-16 09:30:46

I too was asked to sign that petition but won't.
The reason given was that they opted not to marry as they'd both been married before and didn't want to do it again. Fair enough, but by choosing the relative 'freedom' of a civil partnership they also chose to miss out on the legal protection om marriage.
It's a choice not to marry..
My daughter went into a civil partnership but at the first opportunity they chose to marry.
If they want the protèction they should be prepared to make the commitment.

mollie Wed 06-Jan-16 08:27:15

I've been asked to sign an online petition calling for civil relationships to be available to all. The argument is that this legally recognises and protects long-term partners in the same way that marriage does, but without the couple being married. I assumed now that gay marriage is legal civil partnerships would no longer be required. Seems I'm wrong. I can understand the need to protect your property and financial rights etc. but I don't understand why marriage, as a legal contract, is still considered a step too far? Can anyone explain why we still need two levels of commitment?