My mum died yesterday.

Dear Gillybiob
My heart goes out to you ,I cried when I read your post and I am so sorry for your loss.I can really empathise with you.I lost my lovely mum almost 6 years ago after a long illness. It was such a relief to know she was no longer suffering but the grief was so painful and the longing to talk to her again was so intense.Be so proud of yourself and your family for surrounding her with so much love and care .I am sure you are emotionally drained and exhausted but will draw strength from your loved ones.

So sorry!

Sorry for your loss,Gillybob.

Gillybob I am sorry for your loss but remember your mum is now out of pain and peace. (((hugs)))

Thinking of you all at this very sad time. Your Mum is at peace now.

gillybob, it's all been said and I feel so sad for you and the rest of your family.

So sorry to hear this gilly - it is always hard even when it is expected. Well done for all your patient care.

Condolences, gilly. It has been a hard time for your family. Take care

gilly {{{{hugs}}}} take care and don't forget what I said that you need to look after yourself!!!

Sincere condolences to you all. You have been through so much and your dear mum has suffered a lot. I hope you can get comfort knowing you have done so much for her.

So sorry for your loss gillybob, you must feel drained and exhausted as well as bereft. Now is the time to be kind to yourself, don't forget that you were by her side all the way, which is what she will have wanted, and don't feel guilty about any of it. Also to give and receive support from your Dad and your sister and to focus on looking after each other, sometimes sharing your grief helps and can bring solace. When my Dad died (Mum had already gone) sharing fond memories with my brothers and sister helped ease the pain, and sometimes helped us laugh as well as cry.

I am so sorry for your loss gillybob

gillybob please accept my sincere condolences

So sad.

so sorry to hear this gillybob you have had a sad year, but I hope that you and the rest of your family can comfort and support each other knowing that you did all you could.

I am so sorry to hear that, gillybob. My sympathy to you and your family. ?

I am so sorry, my sympathy to you and your family X

So sorry to hear your sad news, gillybob

Gillybob, and hugs. So sorry to hear of your loss, especially as your Mum was younger than me, but she is now free from pain. I am sorry that my words may seem just 'words' but we all here will be wishing you well.

Oh how very sad for all of you.

I'm so sorry for your loss