Ive had a friend who lives round the corner to me.she is married to an emotional bully.
He told my husband around 6 months ago that he hated his grandson,I never told my friend because I knew it would hurt her.
Over the years when I've seen her she has said that she had threatened to leave him but he just cries then she feels sorry for him,and all goes back to normal.
In the past few year they have lost two lots of friends plus he's fallen out with his sister, because of his behaviour with them.
However he hates my cat and said something horrible about him,which festered in my mind.Then we were having a meal and he came in the place,and for all the negative and controlling incidences that he had subjected her to over the years.
I took him on one side and told him quietly what I thought about him.He came round to the house, put his hands around my neck, he let go didn't hurt me.But I'm still in shock it only happened on Friday.
She came round to see me and defended him ..But now she wants nothing to do with me.I am devastated as thought she'd see the light.They have a grown up daughter,who grew up in fear.They had always had to walk on eggshells, this is a shortened version of what he's like.I just cannot seem to sleep thinking about it.
