No sorry not got that in right order,I apologised for telling him in public what I thought of him,but only because I didn't want to lose my friend. The threat came a week later.No certainly let him have it then with both barrels!Whats upset my friend is,I told him that she would leave him,but he cries and she feels sorry for him,pathetic bastard.
He then told her, and she was upset because she'd told me in confidence.
Trouble is I've always spoke my mind,she's had to choose her words, and she admit lie to him to keep the peace. My husband is a peacemaker,he went round to calm him down, while I was on the phone warning her what had occurred as she was at work.He is a bomb waiting to go off,so husband wouldn't antagonise him.