Now I am not one to moan but ..... Just walked into the garden where hubby is tending a bonfire - took him a cup of tea (I am baking a cake plus sorting out dinner for tonight so maybe not dressed to the nines) and he said "Thanks love, I see you're not wearing a bra". Not as unusual as you might think as an opening gambit from my husband and as I was wearing 2 thick tops (frosty here this morning) I just said "Wow how can you tell" to which he replied "They're a bit droopy" followed by a huge smile - can he really not tell the difference between a compliment and an insult. Me and my droopy boobs sloped back inside where I proceeded to add arsenic to the icing (OK not really, but in my head) - ain't love grand.
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Now is the time to knit him a minibra for his 'meat and two veg'. Give it to him and tell him you've noticed he'd been getting a bit 'droopy'lately 
christine, I'm surprised he didn't end up in hospital!!
I've lost 2 stone since May and everything is droopy! 
. Sure shows maintaining a certain weight through life is ideal!
I'm sure they don't mean it, they just put their mouth in drive before the brain is engaged.
Loobs, how long have you been married? Would it help if you tell him gently his smiling comment was insensitive?
Maybe he should have said, "*I see you're pleased to see me*" and looked [pointedly at your chest .
Good luck 
You should have told him that you are now embracing a hippie lifestyle, and it will be all organic salads for dinner from now on!( hit them where it hurts....mealtimes.)
Loobs I'm afraid if DH had said that to me I would have been asking if he wanted to drink his tea or wear it! 
As you say, ain't love grand!
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