Hello , looking for some input / encouragement? from you experienced people . I have been divorced from a very unhappy marriage for 12 years and said that I would NEVER be in a relationship again , I really am not sure if I should have ever been married and if it is actually me who was the problem. Saying all that I have found myself in contact with an old flame , someone I knew as a youngish teenager but have thought about him from time to time and wondered how his life turned out . We have been chatting on Facebook for several months and out of the blue I asked him to meet for a coffee , I don`t know why and actually made myself quite unwell worrying about it before we met wanting to cancel and go back to my quiet little life . The meeting was quite nice , he has had a difficult time with a sick wife for whom he was a carer until she died aged 60 early this year . He says she was a heavy smoker and had lung disease which eventually killed her in her sleep . I am just not sure how I feel about him and am very aware that he is quite vulnerable after what he has been through etc . He seems very keen on another meet up and I have agreed to one but am worried about hurting him if it doesn`t work out . I actually really like talking to him , he is such a kind man but not my usual type physically . Should this matter ? I feel very guarded and as if I may freak out if he wants to take it further (if you know what I mean) I am 65 with health problems myself , he is 67 . I just don`t know if I should get into all this again at my age !!!
