Continued support and fun aspects too of rebuilding lives after estrangement can't believe 4 years and we still here to offer help, friendship and support.TWO

Thank you all. I find it hard at the moment being with people, I don't want anyone being bought down because I am not on form. It started last Wednesday, like a grey blanket had wrapped round me after four days out with different friends all going back to partners and normality. Later in the week I have to attend a birthday do for eight of us, I want to cancel but of course won't , can't let birthday girl down. Glad you're all here.

YogagirlDo you have vertigo? My mother has it and needs meds to feel better. Please see a doctor. Or believe it or not it could be stress.
Or maybe the meds you are on now if any.
Had a nice day boating with friends.
The weather was perfect... not too hot, not too cold.
SmilessGlad you had a good chat with your DS.
LuckylegsPlease seek help if only for a short time. We all go thru depression at different times in our lives and some spells last longer than others. I have a friend whose husband died. She was severely depressed but decided that she would try and fix it. She booked as much time as she could meeting friends, playing cards, golfing, dance lessons. She filled up get calendar and four years later she has a new life. Maybe you need to schedule more things for yourself, take a trip, get involved with a class etc. You have nothing to lose. We all care about you.

Smilless mr c is not. Likely pass his wheelchair pusher test anytime soon!

So glad you had. CHat with your son,

Why are my posts pink?

Smilless is right lucklegs if you are sadly very very down you made need meds.

However you are interested in things so I think we can get you through

Sorry I was asleep when you rang I am so tired all time will try get back to you.

I am incredibly lucky with dh but I know am unreasonable at times with this pain.

Myn2nd social trip metmgood friends for drinks at our club it was lovely but I slept all afternoon?.

Oh how I missed my son this weekend

Yogagirom hope little doggie ok my Rosie had general in June, also please get yourself to doctor.

Why are my posts pink? .? X

Lucklegs I care and no you,will not get clinically depressed I won't let you xxx

St. John's Wort

I care about you Luckylegs I know what you are feeling, as I'm on my own too. Shall we go on 'Kindle' together , think that's what it's called, where you swipe right & left I take 'St.John's Wort' really helps

I've been feeling very ill today, had a job doing my classes, my head is spinning, been like this since yesterday afternoon. Doing my yoga class yesterday, laying down doing leg stretches, but then I couldn't get up again, started talking the class through into inverted postures from there, managed to sit up and carry on talking the class through, then into relaxation, normally I would be walking round the class, no one seemed to notice Same thing today with my 2 classes, toyed with going to A&E, but didn't want to leave my dog so long at home alone.
Just remembered feeling this dizzy when I was young, and it turned out to be shingles! But you think; is it a brain tumour, or cancer of the brain! No other symptoms other than head spinning!

Nice to hear you're feeling much better Celebgran

My little Lilly [doggie] is going in for an op tomorrow, only local anesthetic, too old for general, she has a big tumour on her leg, that has to come off

Hope you are relaxing now Smileless after your busy week.

Echoing everything Smileless said.

(((Hugs))) Luckylegs!

Oh Luckylegs we really care about you. I know it's not the same as someone physically there for you every day but we are here.

If you think you may be getting clinically depressed, please go and see your GP. There was nothing indulgent about your rant so rant away as often as you like.

Well the weather has gone so cold here. Celeb you are certainly being looked after, what a gem your h is. Smileless, glad you had a good chat with your son, that's it's made you happy. . I feel down today, I have noone that really cares about me. I see people of course, but too much time on my own is getting me depressed, it can only get worse. I think I am possibly getting clinically depressed, I have had depressive ymoments in the past, but get over them, this is different. Sorry, that is my indulgent rant over, know I am lucky in list of other things. Love to all.

Wish I could hear your take on the British accent Rhinestone, is it 'plummy' like the Queen?.

Just put ourin the oven for our evening meal; Mr. S.'s favourite.

How's Mr. C. getting on with his wheelchair duties Celeb? Do you think he'll ever qualify as an advanced driver?

Had a good chat with DS earlier, he's like a finebut instead of maturing with age, just gets worse which only makes me love and miss him more.

I'm using my tried and tested old laptop so can't do the lovely little pictures that the rest of you do; it's good to be able to use theit's my favourite

celebgran yum yum yes dips, tiny sausages on sticks, cheese and pineapple plus garlic bread, homemade, galore,!

Your DH taking good care of you...

Mum sparklygran sounds good let's make it a party dips crisps tiny pork pies yummy!

Dh cooked me tasty steak last night I am not eating so well but just fa cued that with few chips mushrooms and tomatoes from garden ?

Have fun boating, Rhinestone!

Luckylegs! thank you for the invite, can I bring some chilled Pinot Grigio and savoury snacks , samosas....

Hi All- LuckylegsYou cracked me up with that lounge talk. I'm not sure what kind of drinks you were talking about but the inheritance fantasy sounds like fun.
This is our Labor Day weekend so boating tomorrow and barbeque on Monday.
Did I tell you all that I changed the voice on my phone and messages to sound British? It's so much nicer than our accents.. Besides I'm still 3% British.
Off to have tea and a biscuit as you say.

Good luck at appt, celeb!

Lucklegs I can bring prosecco! Have huge bottle ds got. M E Xmas hope I can drink again soon. Also bottles were give. For rubynwedding,

Appt is next Friday ladies.

Going to be a beautiful day tomorrow, wish I could invite you all round for a glass or two of fizz, lemon tart and Eton Mess, we could sit on the sun loungers and think of lovely ways spending the kids inheritance. Where did tgat come from.??

TGIG ladies. Oh dear Celeb that's a little disconcerting you saying that Mr. C. needs an 'L' plate, I hope he's not bumping you into too many things bless him.

I have fond memories of my GP's too Starlady, especially my maternal GM who I spent a lot of time with up until she died. I remember how thrilled she was when the boys were born, to be a GM. My poor mum's never going to be able to have that joyful experience.

celeb I hope the doctor comes through with treatment options for your painful, numb leg, tomorrow.

Sounds lovely, your nephew's wife's sponge cake.

Off out to have hair done, to cheer me up. It looks nicer when the hairdresser has tamed it! !

Enjoy your afternoon, ladies...

Smilelss mr c does need an L plate,!

Aagh thanks eddicat and spark.tygran

Been upset still about my ,e g rang hospital today got bit Cross and insisted surgeon was told result he seeing me next Friday. I am so worried about severe leg pain and numbness. in left leg.
Wow it's cold and wet today we had amamxing weekend with dear son and his family he was
Chief wheelchair pusher. We had picnic on beach Sunday and Monday.

Lucklegs hope you enjoyed weekend outing.
Smilless glad you enjoyed break despite lack wifi ?

My gorgeous nephews wife made me fantastic fresh cream sponge total suprise she is lovely girl and was great see little ones little xxxxxxx starts school. NExt week!
lots cuddles with my favourite little man too.

We tired now despite dozing most afternoon,x

Smileless family dynamics have changed and what our grandparents and our parents experienced with their grandchildren, with no pay off, no penalties, is a fond era to look back on.
As an eldest granchild, both sides, I always visited both sets, on my own then with my DH and DS. I loved the company of my elderly grandmothers - one of whom I was lucky to have until 2007.

I recently said to my estDF and ex DH, that all children have a right to know who their grandparents are, and it was no good them waiting until they are 25.

I hope he relates this to our DS ( est to me) as he likes talking.

celeb I hope recovery and physio going along well.

Celeb - hope you are getting on ok (I`m missing your posts)
x