I have been married to my second husband for 13 years. Everything was really lovely until he was away with his mates and I answered the phone in his study. On his desk was a hotel receipt for two people from a hotel not too far from where we live and somewhere he had no need to stay. I couldn't get it out of my mind so when he came home I asked him why he had stayed in that hotel and he more or less told me I was stupid and seeing things, or it was a receipt for before I knew him, but I knew I hadn't imagined it. He has always gone away on business a lot so the net time he went away I did the unthinkable and went through all his papers and lo and behold found numerous hotel receipts, train tickets etc, none of which related to where he supposedly goes on business. I tackled him several times but each time he denied anything was going on. That was 10 months ago but I finally broke down and told him to stop denying it and tell me the truth.
Now is feels so sorry but has told me he has finished it but apparently it has been going on for three years.
I am totally devastated, heartbroken, feeling betrayed. If I hadn't found out he said it would probably still be going on. What can I do, we are both in our 70's and we should be enjoying what time we have left.
