Should I say anything to my friend?

SAY NOTHING OR IT WILL END IN TEARS. FORGET IT.

I wonder why you would even want to make more out of this than it is. Steer away. Don't look for trouble unless trouble troubles you!!!

The knee is OK, perhaps she was earnestly emphasising a point!
The ankle? perhaps she's a doctor or a physio?
Any higher than the knee - shh, you saw nothing!

jalima
You should be in my garden. The bungalow that backs on to mine are having a new roof put on and there are 4 gorgeous roofers up there.

Yes we need more details..was it the ankle or further up?

I guess it depends where on his leg? To me touching legs is not flirting unless the touching is close up to... but I think not to happen at a birthday party. Do not say a word.

This has put me in the mood for a good flirt.

Unfortunately I am in my gardening clothes and there is no handy elderly male around to flirt with
sorry, with whom to flirt

I'm assuming that nobody has ever flirted with minimo so she couldn't know the difference between flirting and two people who are having an affair.

^ if a guy sat beside a woman at a party and put his hand on her thigh he'd soon be in trouble.^
It depends how charming he is, that fine line between charm and sleaze

I've never understood why so many people think it's ok to flirt?
Really? I suppose it depends if you are jealous or if your partner has given you reason to mistrust him/her.

I've never understood why so many people think it's ok to flirt? It's not only disrespectful to the partner but also hurtful. Regarding this problem though, I wouldn't say anything because it could just be that the woman is one of those touchy feely types and planting the seed will only cause heartache but why do some women think it's ok to maul men? if a guy sat beside a woman at a party and put his hand on her thigh he'd soon be in trouble.

Stay out of it, your garden but not your business, it was probably a bit of harmless, alcohol induced flirting.Least said soonest mended as my old Gran used to say.

Another vote for staying out of it. No point in "telling' because there's nothing to tell.

It will stir up a lot of bad feeling and you may end up losing more than one friend. You don't know if your suspicions are justified so I think it would be better to just forget it.

I Agree with the comments made.

Just forget it or make it into a joke inside your head. But keep it there DEFINITELY.

helps the inhibitions to be lost.

Im looking forward to your next Gathering though.

You could causr a whole lot of gossip and heartache, over nothing. You dont actually know what they were talking about. Leave well alone.

That's far to much drama for just a hand on a knee. Now if you caught them behind the bins with their drawers down is another matter

'A still tongue in a wise head'. I would say absolutely nothing and forget it.

Mind your own business! I agree with everyone who advises "Say nowt!" Other people's marital shenanagans usually end in tears & it's best to stay out of it.

The above thread was for PETRA
Not Minimo.
I'm confused; it's my age ...

minimo I wish they had a like button here. I think you summed it up perfectly ???

minimo
Don't come to any of my parties then, you'll certainly have a touch of the vapours.
i saw her hand on his leg I think you've been reading to much Barbara Cartland.

OMG stay out of it and never mention it to anyone!! Your friend will not thank you and you might put her marriage in jeopardy! Her husband might be really angry with you for stirring!

I should keep quiet about what you saw, you don't know what was being said to each other maybe she is tactile with people and sometimes people are very silly at parties specially when they have known one another a long time.