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How to sign Christmas card

(44 Posts)
Skweek1 Wed 06-Dec-17 10:27:57

In our family (DH, DS. MIL and I) mostly each send individual cards to the others. DH and I send MIL and DS a joint card (generally written by me) and for MIL I've got round the issue - he calls her mum, but to me she's been Anne since the day we met (she's only 15 years older than me), so just signed "To Anne/Mum" - the obvious answer.

Nanny123 Wed 06-Dec-17 09:49:12

I would sign it mum

Nelliemoser Wed 06-Dec-17 08:41:42

First name if in any doubt,or the girlfriends mother asks to be called mum..

kittylester Wed 06-Dec-17 08:03:37

Dgc get their own!

That would really confuse them Danni - in fact it would confuse ours too.tchgrin

JackyB Wed 06-Dec-17 06:32:32

And when it's addressed to DS, DiL and DGD all together, you have to sign with three names!

BlueBelle Wed 06-Dec-17 05:12:13

I just put Mum inside and the envelope addressed to both anything to the in law personally I use my Christian name

DanniRae Tue 05-Dec-17 22:54:28

Same as Kitty - only not Kitty and Mr Kitty, of course!

MawBroon Tue 05-Dec-17 22:54:22

Mum/Maw
xxx

cornergran Tue 05-Dec-17 22:36:02

We do Mum and Dad if it’s for them both but first names if it’s a card just for the one not related to us by birth. No complaints so far.

Granflower Tue 05-Dec-17 18:43:21

Thanks for all your suggestions - think I am going to go with the easiest mum then my name on any personal cards to my sons girlfriend.

kittylester Tue 05-Dec-17 18:26:30

We sign ours

Mum and Dad
Kitty and Mr Kitty

Kittye Tue 05-Dec-17 18:19:41

Mum

Scribbles Tue 05-Dec-17 17:50:53

My OH always used may parents' first names so anything they addressed to him - birthday cards, etc - would be signed with their names but anything, such as Christmas cards, addressed to both of us was from "Mom & Dad".

Greenfinch Tue 05-Dec-17 17:32:27

I sign mine Mum/Greenfinch.

Squiffy Tue 05-Dec-17 17:22:23

"Mum - Granflower" - that covers both of them! tchsmile

Christinefrance Tue 05-Dec-17 17:16:12

Yes don't get hung up on this unnecessarily just sign in the way you usually do to your son but tell the girlfriend she can use your first name when you are talking. That's why we have names ?

lemongrove Tue 05-Dec-17 17:10:38

Mum,after all he is your son.

midgey Tue 05-Dec-17 17:09:25

From ‘The old bat’!?

Granflower Tue 05-Dec-17 17:07:33

Son has just moved into a house with his girlfriend. Who is lovely and we all get on well. I always send him a special Christmas Card and have got a lovely one to a special couple.
But how do I sign this - is it just mum or my first name. His girlfriend is very close to her family I wouldnt expect or want her to call me mum - my mother in law insisted on this and I found it very difficult to do. So I now just dont know how to sign the card. Any novel ideas or am I just worrying over nothing.