Did you have doubts before you got married, and how did it turn out?

Yes I had doubts, but then I have had misgivings about almost everything I have done. Mostly very happy and we usually agree about important things.

A friend said she needed a brandy to give her courage before she walked down the aisle and her marriage has not been terribly happy to put it mildly.

No doubts at all and we're still together nearly 43 yrs later.
I had doubts about my DD's marriage, I did ask if she was sure when I was paying the deposit for the reception. They seperated after 6 yrs.

When I got married (1958) it was "the thing to do" in your early 20s. Most of my friends were already married, so I went with the current boyfriend - we did have a lot in common. My parents were always against it, and they were right.
It didn't last long, but we have 3 lovely children.
I put a bit more thought into my second marriage:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ke8YS53swJc

We had no doubts at all. We were young and very much in love. There have been ups and downs but we have survived 50 years together.

I had serious doubts right up to and including the actual wedding day, but we still managed 32 years together. Not particularly happy ones though.

I never believe couples who say they have had a troubles-free marriage. Living in close contact with someone takes a lot of compromises.

We have managed 53 years married (next July) but it has not been without some ups and downs.
We married young and have aged together and I think having children and grandchildren has cemented the marriage well and truly together.

Would I do it all again? Probably.

Some were surprise DH and I got married as we're so very different. We've had a couple of sticky patches but we're still together after 47 years

Some others had doubts as my H and I were very young but we loved each other very much and that love grew stronger.
He started to change after about 40 years and I believe that was the start of his dementia although it wasn't recognisable for some years.
Now he is a different person and one I often don't like.
Would I do it again,probably.

Yes I had doubts and as it happens it turned out rubbish but I stuck it out for 22yrs but have now web very happy with my second hubby for over 20 yrs

No doubts but my husband died eight years after we married, I like to think we would have continued to be as happy as we were then.

Never had a doubt - he was my soul mate and we had over 40 happy years together

Oh yes the first time I knew it was completely wrong but my parents wanted me off their hands and respectable - lasted 6 years with many break ups along the way. Been married to number 2 for 39 years but still had doubts to begin with and many ups and downs along the way. We're OK now.