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The Duchess of Sussex and her father

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DillytheGardener Sun 10-Feb-19 16:01:50

Read the latest in sad state of affairs between Meghan and her father today with sadness.

Her letter seemed so reasonable and made good points, her father has behaved in such an abominable way towards his daughter. Rather than pulling his head in after the stupid staged shots he was paid for, apologised and kept quiet till it all blew over he's dug his heels in and embarrassed her time and time again.

I'm not surprised her friends came out in support, even if she did direct it. Has the press no memory of how poor Diana and Fergie were berated and bullied? The idiot rags like the Daily Mail and the Sun are really going for it to make their money. I feel so sorry for her and hope it doesn't affect her pregnancy with all the stress.

I don't understand why the public seem to want her to reconcile with him. He obviously can't be trusted and she's wise to stay well clear, that side of the family is unhinged. Half brother with a DUI and domestic abuse, the other sister seems disturbed, her own daughter cut her off for goodness sakes and by the looks of it for good reason.

Harry was always my favourite, he's a bit older than my two children, but I always felt for him after Diana died. He was such a little mite behind the coffin.

Susan56 Mon 11-Feb-19 13:23:59

Couldn’t agree more PECS

PECS Mon 11-Feb-19 13:09:45

"for the love of money is the root of all evil which while some coveted after, they have erred from faith and pierced themselves through many sorrows". Good old Timothy knew what he was talking about!
Having now read a few background articles from various sources it does seem that some are on a mission to get a piece of the Sussex pie!

Anniebach Mon 11-Feb-19 13:01:58

But not unkind of her friends to speak to the press , which caused him to defend himself, I don’t agree with him publishing the letter but can understand him wanting to
Defend himself. He has kept silent about the letter through his many interviews , perhaps being accused of lying by her friends was just too much

Nonnatimesfour Mon 11-Feb-19 12:55:48

What a shame her father couldn't have kept the letter to himself, that was unkind of him.

Anniebach Mon 11-Feb-19 12:47:47

Apologies to the poster who said Harry was her favourite because he was small walking behind his mothers coffin, yes it was very sad but I don’t understand how this made him a favourite.

Harry irritates me .

Susan56 Mon 11-Feb-19 12:44:36

I agree with eazybee.It is all very unpleasant and a pregnant woman should be off limits.I find her father and sister unbelievable,if he cared as much as he says he does,he would be trying to reconnect with her privately.Horrible situation all round.

pinkquartz Mon 11-Feb-19 12:41:31

I wholeheartedly agree with PaddyAnn Harry does not need our sympathy or pity. He has a life free of all normal concerns like money, bills, commuting, student debt etc. I also have known children losing both parents at a young age which is unbearably sad.
Why the new Duchess cannot resolve this family matter without making all this public is a mystery to me.

PECS Mon 11-Feb-19 12:22:12

Wow! Ngaio1 there's a judgement!
I know nothing about her other than what I gleaned from the report of the wedding as that was reported in the paper I buy and was also on TV. Any previous or subsequent gossip has passed me by except when I see it on GN!

Johno Mon 11-Feb-19 12:20:18

I can never get excited about multi-millionaires with servants having a tiz with their families. My daughter struggles to pay the electric bill despite grafting hard and raising children.

Aepgirl Mon 11-Feb-19 12:19:29

Well said Day6 (but I would suggest that you check for typos before posting!). Meghan will need the support of the royal family and the public in the years to come, and should resist publicising her disfunctional family. Her mother is dignified and the person Meghan should be closest to.

Ngaio1 Mon 11-Feb-19 12:14:41

This confounded woman has caused nothing but upset since she arrived on the Royal scene, Poor besotted Harry! Once she has the child I doubt she will be long on the scene.

Anniebach Mon 11-Feb-19 12:10:48

Naturally the press would find such a society wedding strange with the bride not inviting uncles, aunts, cousins etc , a quiet wedding yes , but hundreds of guests and only one member of the brides family invited

jaylucy Mon 11-Feb-19 12:00:55

Well said!
No one knows what goes on behind closed doors (as the old song used to say!!!) There must have been some reason Meghan was estranged from her father but not up to anyone, including "friends" to speculate why.
Time that all the media pulled their head in and let it rest once and for all .

Anniebach Mon 11-Feb-19 11:55:57

May have been so different if her parents families had been invited to the wedding

Mapleleaf Mon 11-Feb-19 11:54:52

Well said Oldwoman70. Not so sure that everyone takes it with a pinch of salt, though, sadly. hmm

sylviann Mon 11-Feb-19 11:47:08

The family business between Meghan and her father should be kept between themselves

annodomini Mon 11-Feb-19 11:42:17

Dirty linen has no place here...I hope.

PECS Mon 11-Feb-19 11:41:01

The media drag it up because 'vultures' like to pick over the bones and that sells papers/gets viewers!

Bijou Mon 11-Feb-19 11:37:15

I am not interested in the royal family and celebrities. The press hype up all these stories to get ignorant people to read their rags. Even though in my youth I worked on the Daily Express I never buy or read newspapers.

Urmstongran Mon 11-Feb-19 11:33:59

It’s boring so I mostly skip any articles about the RF. They wouldn’t be interested in my life either!

tallulahbelle Mon 11-Feb-19 11:29:20

I totally agree. It's really no ones business, everyone knew of the estrangement and knew her history before the wedding , so why keep dragging it up?!

MaggieMay69 Mon 11-Feb-19 11:03:34

To be honest, they all bore me to death. People say the Royals bring in more money to our Country, its really not so.
They are a parasitic bunch, Of course I felt for the boys when they lost their mother, as I would anyone else, but at the end of the day there are far more worth people about who actually do bring in money to this country, instead of having whatever they might bring in, spent on their comforts, safety and well being.
Waste of time n space, all of them.

Benji3742 Mon 11-Feb-19 11:01:06

Oh dear! Oh dear, this is what I call 'family sins' we all have.

knspol Mon 11-Feb-19 10:41:33

None of our business and don't really care except for the fact that it probably cast a big shadow over her wedding day. Nobody knows what's really going on apart from Meghan and her dad and why should they?

Craftycat Mon 11-Feb-19 10:34:51

All this nonsense makes me very glad that I gave up buying papers years ago & rely on Radio 4 for my news- I very occasionally see TV news but I shall never buy another newspaper (except occasionally the Rugby paper which has no politics or gossip but lots of pictures of hunky rugby lads!)