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Valentine plans

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GabriellaG54 Mon 11-Feb-19 21:38:18

Has anyone planned an exciting/romantic/sexy evening on Thursday, unbeknown to their partner/husband/lover?
Have you decided on your gift to him/her or is it already wrapped and safely hidden.
E-card or real card?
Have you planned a special outfit in case he springs a surprise dinner at a Michelin starred restaurant?
Will you be cooking a Valentine's £20 dinner for two from a supermarket?
Do tell.
I'll be at my OH's house where he says there will be no expense spared. We won't be having alcohol as neither of us drink and I have given heavy hints about the food I will eat. After 5 years, I think that message has sunk in.
My presents to him are a cashmere sweater and silver cufflinks engraved with his and my initials.
Over to you...

Missiseff Tue 12-Feb-19 22:28:12

That's hilarious Barneyoldbat, love it!

nannyof4 Tue 12-Feb-19 22:32:01

Its nice for the youngsters to celebrate,going on over 30years here nothing planned,my birthday is just after so will hopefully go out then.

Rowantree Tue 12-Feb-19 23:41:01

We never bother with it.
Enjoy, if it floats your boat. I'm spending part of the day having a bone scan!

narrowboatnan Wed 13-Feb-19 08:49:52

Valentine Day is also our wedding anniversary. When we got wed February 14th was the only date the registry office had available for that month. At least we never forget the anniversary ??

Willow500 Wed 13-Feb-19 09:12:17

We've been married for 48 years and together since we were 11 - I have never had a Valentines card but equally never sent one. In fact we're not even in the same house tomorrow grin

Trueblu Wed 13-Feb-19 14:06:39

This is my first post on grandsnet. Not a pleasant subject to ask about. Ex husband of 23 years is dying. Sons are visiting him. I live two hours away. Should I visit or not? Not had anything to do with him a part from weddings etc. So many good reasons why we divorced. He has a partner who doesn’t live with him there. Is it usual to visit, will I feel guilty if I don’t? Eldest son said don’t but it’s up to me. Not sure he would know me as he’s wandering all over the place and of course asking for me. I know it’s up to me but would like to know if anyone has been in this situation.

maryhoffman37 Wed 13-Feb-19 14:41:24

Our Christmas present from youngest daughter was a box containing two "date nights." They consisted of two DVDs, chocolates, dates (!), popcorn and a fine bottle of Merlot. We decided the second lot would be enjoyed on Valentine's Night, so that's us sorted. We've saved the wine, popcorn and dates for this one. The DVD is in a sealed envelope!

kittylester Wed 13-Feb-19 15:06:18

trueblu, you will get much more advice on this topic if you start a thread about it.

Juggernaut Wed 13-Feb-19 16:11:44

I spent our fourth St Valentine's day together giving birth to our DS!
After receiving a baby as a St Valentine's present, flowers, chocolates, jewellery all pale by comparison!
I did get a rather beautiful diamond eternity ring the year after our DS was born thoughgrin

MawBroon Thu 14-Feb-19 08:34:34

The thing about Valentine’s Day now is that it’s irrelevant, but at the same time it’s a day for potentially causing offence. Nobody cares. Everyone’s past it. Maybe it’s even a bit creepy in 2019. And yet, how you play it has to be carefully managed. The fact is that the day of flirty love messaging and 20 long-stemmed roses is over, but the day of proving your emotional sensitivity has arrived. It’s a test, basically. For men.

MissAdventure Thu 14-Feb-19 09:03:25

My plan for today is to return a toilet seat which arrived without the appropriate fittings from eBay.

Lily65 Thu 14-Feb-19 09:50:02

Try to join in my home counties er " get together". We can always find room for more.

Its all very tasteful, Bert Baccarat on the stereo, nibbles and Mateus Rose. Only the pampas grass is a hint of what is available indoor.

PECS Thu 14-Feb-19 14:50:16

So.. soppy nana that I am! 1 fpr each grandchild????

Gonegirl Thu 14-Feb-19 15:21:55

Well, I have eaten my share of the custard doughnuts I bought from M and S as our Valentines Day treat. And I have also scoffed the four chocolate hearts also bought by me from said shop (didn't share with DH ?)

That Valentines Day done and dusted. And I feel slightly sick.

andycameron69 Thu 14-Feb-19 15:50:03

pecs that is adorable so cute

love it

I love a fairy cake

Gonegirl Thu 14-Feb-19 16:32:02

That is lovely PECS.

Oldandverygrey Thu 14-Feb-19 17:27:03

Today is our 58th Valentines day together, bought a supermarket meal, its been a lovely day.

MawBroon Thu 14-Feb-19 18:30:44

lily65 really pushing the boat out!
Mateus Rose and Burt Bacharach (note spelling)

The less said about the pampas grass the better though gringrin

PECS Thu 14-Feb-19 18:39:36

As DH is already snoozing in his armchair I rather fear my night of unbridled passion is off the agenda gringringrin Ah well, hot chocolate and a movie will have to do!

Lily65 Thu 14-Feb-19 19:06:40

Thanks for spelling correction, The Girl from Ipanema is going down very well chez Lil. The Mateus is luke warm, just the way it should be and the cheese and pineapple on sticks is working its magic.

We have a nice little crowd here celebrating this special day and the car keys are jangling.

KatyK Thu 14-Feb-19 19:11:54

Valentine's Day hasn't been mentioned in this house but then it never is. It's not our thing. We are nipping down the road to the local for a couple of glasses of wine though smile wine

Jalima1108 Thu 14-Feb-19 19:25:12

I spent a couple of hours pruning the roses - does that count?

DH cooked - now that is a romantic gesture smile.

Jalima1108 Thu 14-Feb-19 19:26:10

I want chocolate

Bathsheba Thu 14-Feb-19 20:27:02

No chance of any unbridled passion in this house - I've put my back out and have been confined to a hard chair/bed for the last 2 days. I can scarcely move ?.

DH has been running around after me, though, and tonight's treat is an Indian takeaway ?

Bathsheba Thu 14-Feb-19 20:29:15

Ah, so that's why you're called PECS! What a lovely thing to do for them ❤️