Do you have many friends?

I have three very close friends who aren’t connected one I was at school with and we meet every couple of weeks I love her dearly another I meet at least monthly I ve known her 35 years and we understand each other and my very best friend who I see regularly go to theatre cinema and lunches with swap plants and ideas etc and speak on the phone every few days also about 35 years from work I m also lucky enough to arrange and meet up with 14 schoolfriends for lunch once a month they were not all close friends at school but one was my bridesmaid and at least three were also social friends in those days So I m lucky

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I have several groups of people (we get together often) that I class as long term friends and I have friends in the town we left a few years ago. I also meet up with ex colleagues.

I am not the sort really to have a bosom buddy - a close friend I'd want to confide in. I have laughs and fun with the friends I have (they'd say I was gregarious) and that is enough for me. I feel I can be honest and confide in my OH, my siblings and my children if I feel the need.

I don't like having too many arrangements. I need down time and solitude. I like people and will chat happily to strangers but have never felt the need to phone people to chat, drop in on people or to be busy, busy, busy with social arrangements. I always like coming home to peace and quite if we have been out or away with friends.

Yes and I feel very fortunate. We’ve been retired almost 5 years and in addition to the good friends I already had, I’ve had the good luck and more leisure time to make more.

We flit between here in Manchester and over in Malaga where we have a small apartment and I consider I’ve now made real friends there too. Plenty of leisure time certainly helps to increase the opportunity for socialising!

I have a few good close friends to have coffee with, close family and a then wider range of aquaintances who I talk to locally when walking the dog or bumping into people to chat to. I think it would be a good idea to make more close friends as I keep thinking it's not good to put all my eggs in one basket. Maybe I should do a voluntary job or get a separate little job outside the home (I work from home so don't meet any new people at work)

How nice Chewbacca! I just wish I had that, but I’ll work on it I guess.

@FountainPen, that’s my intention this year to volunteer and make new friends along the way.

@Annie, oh how sad. Do you not meet up now then?

@CrazyH; I lost a dear friend many many moons ago now and it can be hard when no-one else matches up x

@Septimia, I guess that’s the same for me. We’re very happily married, get along just fine but I miss the chats and coffee with dear friends.

I have a few good friends but none of them compare to my dear, dear, dearest friend, who I lost 2 years ago to the dreaded C. I still miss her. Like me, she too was divorced, but her ex husband went bankrupt just before they divorced, so she wasn't left with much, but my word, what a rich heart she had. Never believed in penny pinching, unlike some of my well-off friends, who check the price of a pea before they buy it. I still miss her, I miss going out for lunches ...nowhere fancy, just pub lunches. Miss her so much ?

I had 4 very close "best friends" that I've had for over 40 years but one died last year. Of the other 3; I see one of them every week and we phone or text in between. The other 2 I see a couple of times a month but again, we text or phone in between. I have 2 others that I meet up every 6 weeks or so. If I had a middle of the night emergency, I know I could call any one of them and they'd come to help me.

I am very fortunate that I see people I was at school with weekly.

I am very good friends with the girl I met in my first job in London.

I am still in contact with "my school gate mums" who go to the same gym as I do so see them a couple of times a week.

My first next door neighbor is my DD's Godmother.

Mr.GG13 and I were very active in various charities and fellowship clubs and have made several extremely good "couple friends" these friendships have lasted over 30 years.

I suppose I have 5 really close girlfriends and 3 close men friends who I can confide in and call anytime.

We have had a couple of longs threads recently about makings friends in later life. My dearest and closest friend from our schooldays died four years ago far too young. My husband also died very young.

Now retired, I have worked hard to develop new interests and social circles. I've been very lucky to have become involved in activities including voluntary jobs which bring me into contact with many interesting and talented people. Through those circles I have made many new friends, both women and men and have a good social life.

I'm not sure we can ever have again that closeness we had with friends we made in childhood, all those memories rooted in the places we lived and went to school, the shared experiences of growing from child to adulthood. However, I do still think it's possible to develop a small circle of very good friends in later life, people whose company we enjoy and in whom we can confide and depend on in times of trouble.

I miss my three sisters , we had our own friends but the sister bond was there from childhood, teens, marriages, children , even harder is we live in the same town.

I have one good friend that I met at nursery school. We keep in touch but don't actually see each other very often although, when we do, it's like we've never been apart. I exchange Christmas and birthday cards with a couple of other school friends and regularly email an ex-neighbour. Apart from that, I only have acquaintances, some closer than others admittedly, with whom I interact thanks to local social events and who are neighbours. My husband is my best friend but sometimes I feel the need for a woman to talk to!