we have met the new love, but he wasn't very welcoming, i used to look after my grand daughter every w end so her mum could go to work , my grand daughter found it very hard to accept him as it was just her and her mum for 7 years . and we done all we could to encourage that it was a good thing that mummy was happy,
but she was terribly naughty because of the situation so found herself being disciplined by both on a regular basis , unfortunately i visited on a bad day tried to defuse the situation a little and then the new love threw me out, with my daughters blessing .
since that day i have seen my grand daughter twice, last time i see her she was a very mixed up little girl who is now in therapy at school its just a mess , but the school reassure me she is ok. so other than mediation i dont know what else to do