"...hopefullys you can make amends soon."
That might just be the friend trying to be kind or encouraging, but it might mean something. If you had the opportunity to make amends, do you have any idea of what you would do/say?
"the last words he said me you have no need to be here
you are not wanted or needed"
Ouch! But those words were said in the heat of anger. Maybe they express what he really feels, but maybe it's just the kind of thing he says when he's mad (not a good trait, of course, if that's so).
"i see my my daughters bf at least 3 times a week
and its like we are complete strangers."
He might be embarrassed about how he acted the last time. Or (sigh) he might simply not want anything to do with you. Hopefully, though, things will improve between you and ydd, and you'll be able to have a relationship with her and gd sans bf.
Imo, there are a lot of red flags in ydd's relationship with bf. But as others have said, she'll have to realize that on her own. Just please be there for her if/when she does.