So sorry for all the pain people in here have experienced!
Glad you appreciate this thread, though, Buffybee! And such exciting news! Please keep us posted!
Pink such good news! It may be a while before you get to see the 12-yr-old, of course, but glad she's interested and that you've been able to renew your relationship with GS!
Clearly, Pink, saying something like, "Your GM wouldn't give me money when I asked for it!" (or whatever she said) didn't help DD.
I'm getting the impression from this thread that how the GC see the situation may depend largely on whether or not their parents give them believable and acceptable reasons for the estrangement and whether or not the parents are open to their contacting the estranged GPs, etc. when they're older. Then again, I appreciate the fact that, as Maggiemaybe points out, by then, it could be too late.
I used to think it would be best to just say, "It's a matter of grownup problems." But perhaps that leaves too much of a mystery?
Sorry that some of you find acronyms and abbreviations annoying. I use them b/c it saves time & space, especially with words that are used over and over. There's a list to click on at the top of the page, and as Bibbity said, one can always ask. Also, as Bibbity said, all the forums seem to use them. But I get that some posters choose not to.
As for me, I'm used to using them and will continue to do so. Please feel free to skip my posts if these things irritate you.