Time to live it up - or not.

Thanks all you were all very encouraging. I have decided to go and will set a return date.....he wishes to do some touring which I will enjoy. Thanks everyone - now to update the wardrobe etc.

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I know how you feel. Go for it and have fun with him, as long as you go with your eyes open and play it cool whilst you're getting to know him again. Us seniors don't have quite as many opportunities to find excitement, or love come to that. So as long as you're careful, go on.

Oh yes, you must go.
How lovely for you both to get a second chance.

Yes go for it and good luck narelle222 starlady made some good points. Enjoy your adventure.

Go ahead, but keep expectations low, don't make any assumptions, and keep the visit short & sweet. Definitely think you should have an arrival date and an end date. Enjoy and please fill us in (as much as you can).

Close your eyes and jump. Good luck

Exciting. Go for it but as someone says just go with the flow - don't go with any expectations either way. (you may find you can't stand him after a day ha ha) Hopefully not and both find a new lease of life with each other.

Go for it (and I must say I don't see any reason for taking it slowly!). Life is for the living.

Go for it.... but be careful

Do it!

Take it slowly !

Yes do go, just wondering if it might be best to set a date on coming and going in case you don't feel happy with things.

Carpe diet and enjoy. When I asked my daughters something similar this is what she said

Do what feels right. Go with your common sense and your instincts.
Please remember to use protection - you may be of an age to not have to worry about pregnancy but bear in mind that the increase in sexually transmitted diseases is in the older generation.

Oh yes do go and take it slowly.

Go and visit him and see what happens.

He may be feeling the same as you.

What are you waiting for, best wishes

How lovely narelle222 - go with whatever you’re comfortable with and obviously your children’s blessing.

If you decide to go, then go but with no expectations.
A lot of water has flowed since then, you have become different people.
Physically and emotionally you both will have changed.
I wish you well.
Lost opportunities are the ones we regret.

You only live once !!! Xx

Do want feels right

Follow your heart