I have just received an email from a cousin which contained a screenshot of a comment from my mother. I estranged from her 6 years ago. I also lost her side of my family. I have a very good relationship with my father's side. My cousin believes my mother did not realise her comment would be visible to others on her friends list. The comment said my mother estranged from me for stealing, doing drugs and allowing my children to do drugs and she had no choice. My cousin knows I was the one who estranged and has questions. Now, 6 years ago I let my family go. I had very little relationship with them due to my mother who herself had a difficult relationship with them for a number of years. When they put aside their differences I was left out of gatherings. I decided that since they now had a good relationship with her and she needs to have a support system, to let the matter go. What should I do here? Should I tell my cousin the truth or ignore it and let her draw her own conclusions? I don't think after all this time I need that family, I have my own support system
Passports not in the drawer I always keep them in. Turning the place upside down.