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Concern about partner's health

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Tangerine Mon 26-Aug-19 22:03:29

My 85 year old friend has had a tremor all her life. She is very healthy and I hope this is how it turns out for your partner although his seems to have suddenly arrived.

It would be wise to ask the GP. I don't think you should necessarily think it's the onset of Parkinson's Disease.

Doodle Mon 26-Aug-19 20:54:45

My DH has essential tremor. No relation to Parkinson’s. His hands shake when he tries to do something like hold a spoon to drink soup or a screwdriver to screw in a nail. When he is sitting with his hands in his lap they do not shake. That I think is the key difference between the two. One shakes at rest, the other doesn’t. Either way the best thing to do is get it checked out.

SalsaQueen Mon 26-Aug-19 20:19:38

It may be what is known as "essential tremor". Whatever, isn't he bothered about seeing the doctor?

BGB31 Mon 26-Aug-19 19:25:46

My partner & I (too old for boyfriend/girlfriend) have been together for 9 months. We don't live together but are making plans to do so next year.

In the last 3/4 months I have noticed a tremor in his hand.
I haven't mentioned it but I can't believe he hasn't noticed it.

His dad had Parkinson's Disease which I'm sure is relevant (maybe to the tremor but also to the reluctance to discuss).

Should I talk to him about it?
He is 62 and seems very healthy otherwise.