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Why do I bother?

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BlueBelle Wed 18-Sept-19 07:56:09

Do you have to do everything together why not part for the morning and meet up for a lovely pub lunch together

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Persistentdonor Wed 18-Sept-19 07:45:38

Not surprised you are feeling fed up!
Hope today is better for you. flowers

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vena11 Wed 18-Sept-19 06:50:27

Oh dear that's a shame, maybe you could split up for a morning or afternoon and do your own thing and get to see the things you both want .

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Pantglas2 Wed 18-Sept-19 06:25:55

Is it the grumpy old man virus they seem to catch every now and again?

I know mine does and we have to have the ‘are you going to be like this all day’ chat - because I won’t tolerate misery/moaning for, ostensibly, no reason. Being horrible at home is one thing but being that way on holiday is unforgivable IMO!

Tell him ‘If I can fix it, I will and if I can’t, I’ll say so and you’ll just have to get on with it! Darling.....’

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OliverZach Wed 18-Sept-19 06:14:51

Just embarked on an amazing holiday but after 3 days wondering what are life together is all about?
It may be just jet lag but DH seems determined not to interact. He knows I like local info & history but just walks on whenever I find information ( think info boards / blue plaques etc ) however if he finds something interesting, railway sidings, something to photograph, he stops & I, out of politeness or something stupid, stop with him. Why?
This pm I tried to explain that I wasn’t averse to a plan of his & suddenly he flipped it that I was having a go and degrading his plan!
What am I supposed to do except take a deep breath, rant online and carry on?
Please excuse the rant but I’m tired of being the scapegoat but don’t understand why I am?

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