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What would you do.

(28 Posts)
midgey Thu 19-Sept-19 18:32:03

My husband prefers to be a night owl. You will probably not change him, if it drives you insane would you leave him? Or like us rub along leading almost separate lives!

Fiachna50 Thu 19-Sept-19 18:27:54

Depends, has illness or a health condition been ruled out? If so you really need to be asking him about this. If he really does not want to go out during the day, you perhaps need to find your own interests. There is a thread on Do You Socialise Together and some of the ladies there gave very good advice.

Yelrah Thu 19-Sept-19 18:17:35

Hi I'm new and would appreciate your advise.
My husband sleeps for a lot of the day. And is up most of the night.
I've tried talking to him about this so many times.
But nothing changes he seems happy doing his own thing and not willing to change.
So what would you do leave him to and do your own thing.
Or try and get him to change.