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(187 Posts)
Sara65 Fri 04-Oct-19 19:33:36

Do you still love your partner? If you do, you may feel too guilty, and if you don’t, why not split up?
But honestly, I’m not judging, whatever gets you through the night!

aggie Fri 04-Oct-19 19:28:59

Might cheer you up , but I doubt it would do much for your Husbands depression . Far better to have a good talk and tell him of your needs , would you be ok with it if the boot was on the other foot ?

Tedber Fri 04-Oct-19 19:28:06

Nobody else can tell you it is wrong. Depends on who might get hurt. Does your husband know? Is your affair partner married?

Being deceitful is, in my opinion, what is wrong and what leads to complications. But I would never judge another in any way - not in a position to.

I hope it all works out for you.

Joyfulnanna Fri 04-Oct-19 19:24:38

Loveless and sexless because my partner is depressed and self absorbed.. Im not blaming him but I need love and feel I'm dying inside. His depression may pass but is it wrong to tend to my needs? I don't want to leave. In older years, I feel like throwing caution to the wind.

Hetty58 Fri 04-Oct-19 19:22:56

No, not wrong at all!

MissAdventure Fri 04-Oct-19 19:15:11

Its probably better to leave the loveless, sexless relationship, regardless.

No love and no sex sounds as if its not worth staying around for.

Oopsminty Fri 04-Oct-19 19:03:35

We need more info!

tanith Fri 04-Oct-19 18:59:49

I wouldn’t stay in that relationship, why are you?

Fiachna50 Fri 04-Oct-19 18:41:01

Why remain in a loveless relationship?

Bridgeit Fri 04-Oct-19 18:38:33

Is it not possible to leave.?

Gonegirl Fri 04-Oct-19 18:38:05

Ooh. Dunno.

Suppose if it makes you "joyful".

Joyfulnanna Fri 04-Oct-19 18:36:26

Is it wrong to have sex with another man when you're in a loveless, sexless relationship with your partner?