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emotional affair

(52 Posts)
MissAdventure Thu 21-Nov-19 22:47:03

How did they first get to know each other?

I wouldn't be at all happy that they have continued whatever it is they're doing, despite knowing it's causing problems.

If she is just a friend, then perhaps you could all meet up? (I'm a suspicious sort, I'm afraid, and I wouldn't believe its entirely innocent)

Chloejo Thu 21-Nov-19 21:37:13

in 2015 I found my husband had been texting another women he says she was just a friend! our marriage had been going through a bad patch due to having looked after elderly parents and it took its toll. I don't believe him and I found a card written from other woman to the man I love with lots of kisses. he gets upset and depressed when I keep bringing it up I do keep going on about it he says he has not had affair and the way he reacts I want to believe him but I have doubts, Its destroying me and he says nothing happened he was just depressed. I have contacted the woman and she says don't insult me I wouldn't go with a married man! ive been in hell for years now over this we are trying to save our marriage but I don't know what to do since finding card he said she had a crush on him,