January blues?

I've been out in the garden doing some planting/pruning/weeding for most of the day. There's urgent stuff to do indoors - but I just didn't feel up to it. Funny how I have more energy outdoors!

I have been feeling a bit low this month as well. I think all we can do is to keep busy and maybe plan a few treats to look forward to.

I’m so glad after reading all the comments on this thread. I thought it was just me being moody and down. When I think about it this happens to me every winter so I’m pretty sure it must be S.A.D.
Sorry you are feeling so down Cotswoldslass. Try to focus on how much lighter the evenings are getting and try to be out in any sunshine when it’s there. Hugs.x

Yes I am another one suffering this January.

Annsixty - sorry you are feeling so low but I do sympathise. I am by nature an optimist but this year the best I hope for is for things to get no worse, which is hardly positive. But truthfully I don’t feel there is anything to look forward to as it is too difficult to take DH away, and the amount of support I need to provide increases all the time.

I know things could be (and may well) be much worse but that is no consolation.

Do hope you get your hip op soon and that you can be pain free at last.

A couple of years ago I found myself feeling very down in January, couldn't stand another grey day. I started taking vitamin D3 1000iu (Natures Best) and within a couple of days felt so much more 'up'. So, I take them every year October through till end of March. Good luck

annsixty.......... Sorry to hear you've been having a rough time of it. x

January seems to be a depressing month - Christmas is over, the weather is miserable, some of us (me) are waiting for pay-day, and there is no Bank Holiday off work until Easter.

I'm going bowling next weekend with my GD and my 2 sons. We'll have lunch out, which is booked.

I think it's a good idea to book something to look forward to. I've just booked a Valentine's Day afternoon tea with Prosecco, to go to with my husband.

I'm now wondering what else I can book (which won't cost much)

I thought it was just me and the different life I am experiencing.
The first Christmas without my H who died 9 months ago so NewYear was very sad.
I am also waiting for a hip replacement so I am fairly immobile.
I can’t get out unless someone takes me and that isn’t often.
Life seems pointless but reading about others it may just be the time of year.
I may feel better when spring comes, I do hope so.

Still working full time with a half hour commute, I leave home at 0725 and don’t return until 1715 ish. My desk is about 30 foot from the window and at this time of year taking lunch near daylight is impossible. So I wish the time away and feel guilty about it. I do try and get out at weekends chores (and weather!) permitting.
But.... this weekend I can see the shoots appearing everywhere, there’s snowdrops on the bank and the birds are singing as I leave in the morning. It promises so much and I must keep that in mind, and not dwell on the misery of the darkness.
I take d3 as week, all year round. I definitely helps.

I will buy some vitamin D tablets Juliet27 As the sun is our main source of it I guess we get low during the winter. It's worth a try thanks.

I can just picture me cavorting to Hawaiian music in a grass skirt moggie57. Not a pretty sight.
I was a volunteer in activities at an elderly residential home but our particular club ended at Christmas.
Come another couple of months I'll be be moaning that there's not enough hours in the day to fit everything in.
I'm not really depressed, just flat and in a can't be bothered mode. I've joined the hedgehogs in hibernation. I'll be out again soon.

I am going out walking each day which I love. Also just trying to enjoy simple everyday things at the moment until I feel 'normal'. Also trying not to think too much but I find that very hard. Hope you soon feel better Cotswoldslass.

Yes love0c - I feel exactly the same (not that I am going on holiday) - I mean the gloom and panic. I think I may look at buying a SAD lamp if they are not too expensive, they seem to have a lot of fans.............

Definitely feeling low. Husband wanted to go on holiday but I am fearful of going at the moment. Can't say why exactly just a feeling of gloom and feel panic rising in me at the thought of going away.

what, not skiing or s owboarding ? Lol.
Must go and try some of the spas soon. Leukerbad (aka Loèche) or Saillon near Sion, or up to Ovronnaz above.

Bright sunshine here jura2! Went for a lovely walk in it today.

I hate the short days in Winter
Spring is the best time of the year for me
Its full of new life and promise

I’m the same cotswaldlass I call it the after Christmas slump!
The run up to Christmas there’s so much to do then after slump!
I use a SAD lamp in the morning it does help me.
I also write a list every Sunday off jobs that need doing for that week

Yes me too, I've been forcing myself to go out for a brisk walk everyday this week, and I can't say that it's helped yet.Even my DH commented this morning that I was very quiet.Can't get excited about anything at the mo !

get a S.A.D lamp. 2 hours when you feel depressed really works .put on some hawaiian music or whatever and pretend you on holiday.i get this every year blooming depressing ,some days i dont feel like geerting up. but sas my grandma used to say ."you a long time dead". so make yourself get up and have a shower,....then think of all the little things you got to do and do them. or volunteer at a charity shop,i have a right laugh at the stuff people donate. lifts me up no end. its warm ,drinks .biccies if you want any. friends to chat too as well as customers.live life now not when you dead ..

Me too Hetty58. My sister's just the same every year. We haven't tried a lamp.
Like you, come March and the sun shines we're like Spring chickens again.

Actually, I am happy to say, today we both said as it was great to have days becoming longer again- and how much we felt better for the bright sunshine.

So hope you feel better soon. Late November, early Dec. is my 'down' time.

I used to have a daylight lamp for SAD and made a habit of 39 minutes use every day.

When it stopped working I thought I could manage without it - but I've really noticed the difference. I'm very low energy and gloomy atm.

Spending more time outdoors really helps but I'll probably get a new lamp too. By the end of March I'm always full of energy and happy.

Yes I feel like that every January. February too. It's known as S.A.D.

After the hype of Christmas it seems a bit flat.
I long to get back on the garden.
I've planned to get some rooms painted before that though. Not in the mood at the moment. I need to declutter drawers too.
Soon be getting lighter at night now.