Thanks again everyone for your views. I can see the importance of telling them soon and of being sensitive and honest with them so I will take that on board.
My partner has a vecetomy booked in for two months time so there will be no more children after this one.
My husband agreed to this on the basis he could work away more and go up north to see his friends every other month. I do most of the childcare and he works until 7pm 5 days a week. However he is a good father to his children being very hands on at the weekends.
His anxieties about having another baby are very much based on him wanting to travel the world when the children grow up but more importantly with what people will think of him (he says he gets laughed at at work ect). He really is very sensitive and worried a great deal about these things. He is less concerned about having to look after another baby.
4 Years On…..Health-wise, Has Anything Changed?
Angela Rayner lashes out and calls Sunak “pint sized loser”.
Elderly fellow gran has become loudly racist