Madgran77
I agree Hithere, that's why I said "appropriately"....at the same time at a level that keeps a great grandparent not reasonably feeling excluded.
Nothing ExD has said gives me any impression that she wants to be included too much, who knows and that is for her to consider for herself in her context.
But a great grandparent is not peripheral.
I guess the issue is if as always, one person views x times a month as appropriate, and the other feels they need y times to not be left out.
ExD, why are you not trying to coordinate visits with your grandson? For whatever reason his wife does not want to make plans with you. Today’s couples often prefer to manage their own families expectations. Wives are no longer the family social secretaries.
I’m glad you’ve stopped pooping in, I’m sure that annoyed her. I do hope you get a visit soon