...rather than once.
When I say 'found out' - he told me. We were talking about his ex-wife and it suddenly came in to my mind to ask if he's been married more than once. He told me as soon as I asked. When I asked why he had not told me before he said he never thinks about it, it was 40 years ago and a very short marriage.
His second marriage was much longer and they had children etc.
I just feel shell shocked. We've been together about 20 months - very happy and loving relationship. He's never lied about anything as far as I am aware.
He doesn't understand why I am so upset - it's not the being married twice that bothers me - it's the fact that he didn't tell me. (I knew about what turns out to have been his second marriage from the moment I met him).
Am I making a fuss about nothing? I've no intention or desire to leave him, I just feel shocked and a bit confused.
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