Basically you can’t. Deep down you’ll always be anxious when they are together as you now have a learned response. Hopefully it will go better than you anticipate. Four children will keep everyone on their toes.
Perhaps mention the children’s presence to your husband and remind him of how they are like little sponges soaking everything up. Maybe coming to you is their holiday? Remind your husband not to spoil it.
Good Morning Thursday Maundy Thursday 28th March 2024