Thank you all for your words of wisdom. I spoke with my daughter yesterday and it was a relief to hear that he is not drinking with her but apparently nags her. And while I know that my son can't fix her sooner or later maybe she will realize she needs help or he will realize he is beating his head against a wall, one or the other. But I will speak with him and voice my concerns but do tell him that I will support them both in whatever he decides. Thank you again I really do appreciate your help!
The majority of Israeli Jews do not want to occupy Gaza.