I know exactly how you feel Nicegranny. Unfortunately I too always managed to choose the wrong men. I came out of my marriage with nothing - despite always paying half of everything as we both worked full time. I managed to work hard so I got my own home.Then I had 2 long term relationships - both who came with nothing. The first was the love of my life but went off with someone 16 years younger (regretting it later but too late by then). I hung onto my house by working 2 or 3 nights as well as my full time job. Then after another long gap I started seeing someone else who eventually moved in - his choice. After 14 years he went out one night and never came home and won't tell me why. However, in hindsight he did me a favour. He never contributed to the house so at least he didn't get any of that but still left with a lot more than he came with (he sent someone to collect his things). That's about 8 years ago and I decided, like you, to stay on my own as I will find it very hard to trust anyone again. I am capable and now retired and used to being on my own. It's been particularly difficult during lockdown as although I have good friends to talk to haven't been able to get out to do my social activities.
You are lucky that you have family to support you - for no obvious reasons I never had children but to be honest glad I only had my self to worry about when my partners left. I would love to have a special person to spend time with (I'm about the same age as you) but certainly wouldn't want to live with anyone again or get married. Best Wishes and stay safe.
Well Labour’s “patriotism” didn’t last very long, did it? 🇬🇧
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic