Ive been maried 41 years im 62 husband 68.he retired 16 years ago at age of 52!!!!!! I knew it was going to be a bad thing for me .I was in a job i disliked and left 4 months before he retired just to have some time alone, fast forward to now and it has been far , far worse than i could ever have imagined. He was always content as he calls it to do little.whereas i like to be very busy. For the last 10 years he has done hardly anything.to the point now hes watching tv continually, its never off .A year ago his leg bone snapped with no trauma he now has osteoporosis. His memory is abysmal and in fact has a brain scan next week.im trying to hang in there till scan results but really struggling. I have a very real fear it is all down to his personality.he just told me hes sitting because he can, ie hes retired.
If you have never lived with such apathy and unmotivation you can really not understand how it affects you. even when im out im dreading getting home.anyone else suffering this?
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