I am in a similar position with DH, he became very anti social yrs pre retirement and pushed for us to move house which was in our long term plans.Following illness I had to retire,problems get travel insurance so our plans to travel never materialised.Then Covid shielding which was DH ideal world.He is on medication and has sleep issues so doesnt get up til 9 then needs to come round 10a.m but insists day finishes at 3p.m. refuses to sit in garden but lays on sofa watching same t.v day in day out.
I try and keep in contact with people but now find months pass and I speak to no one.I cannot believe this is how our life has turned out no visits to pub as DH doesnt drink, no friends, neighbours,hobbies,outings,invites,holidays in fact no future plans.I try and hold family ties together but DCs/DGCs have their young lives to lead so I get to do frequent childcare and weekly family meals and that is it.I do love my DH of 47yrs but feel we are just sat waiting for life to end.If I try to discuss situation with him he insists I am just looking for something to worry over and nothing stopping me from doing my own thing.
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