Recently my husbands only sister and husband came to stay.
They are both obsessed with their grandchildren who live abroad. Every hour or so it seems, messages, video clips, questions come via their Apple watches and smart phones. They are constantly comparing their grand children with others. A short video clip of a ballet session was delightful until my BIL said “ oh she is much better than the others” at age 7 years she has a lot to live up to!
They are also overly concerned about their health. Being in their 70s they are extremely fit. But, daily comparisons with step counts, exercise rings, sleep health and VO2 max all gets discussed daily.
We have grandchildren however, do not discuss them in front of S or BIL.
If I so much as mention anything my BIL actually rolls his eyes in front of me. I have been putting up with their, childish, insensitive, patronising, put downs and behaviour for 40+ years.
Is it me, am I being too insensitive? Next time we are invited to stay I may just say to my husband that he can go on his own.
What do you all think?
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