If my DH comes into the room I’m in or comes over to me while I’m on my iPad he’ll bend over, give me a kiss while trying to see what’s on my iPad screen. It’s annoying because I suppose the kiss is meant to be a distraction from what he’s really trying to do. He could just ask me and I’d tell him or show him. Simple!
Other times, I genuinely switch off when he approaches to give him my full attention in case he wants to speak or whatever and he immediately shouts, “ Why do you always switch from what you’re doing when I come over?” Sometimes it’ll escalate into him screeching at me and stomping about even though I’ve calmly told him why I switched off or switched screens.
Tonight I’ve just about had enough. The thing is that he is so secretive with anything he does, especially his phone. He has always locked it so I could never access it (not that I’ve any inclination to!)
What to do? There’s no talking to him about it and I don’t see why I should have to prove what I’m doing or reading every time.
