Back together

Sorry you are not compatible.

You said it yourself - you deserve better

It is so hard to let go of something you have become used to as a way of life.

It's hard now but you know you are best off without him and you need to be strong and positive in what's best for you.

Wish you all the best and hope you feel happy in your life eventually.

When you say 'He’s not bad just an idiot' what do you mean? How does he behave?.

You are not happy, he won't change so you know what you need to do, I'm afraid. Regardless of being worse off, could you imagine living with him for another ten years? Twenty? What made you reconcile? Were there promised of changes which haven't materialised? Or were you missing something that the relationship gave you? Only you can decide what to do. My exh and I briefly reconciled - I took him back. It didn't work out and I was left with two children to bring up and had to find somewhere to live. I maybe didn't have the well off life I could have had, but I have been much happier. Whatever you decide, I wish you all the best.

Did you get back together after he promised to change his ways towards you.?
Did family influence you to get back together ?
You know you can manage on your own so why put yourself through it again,do what is best for you and enjoy your life to the full you deserve it.