Worried about letting people down

Contact the school and say just what you said here re your husband's care.
The sooner you tell them, the sooner they can make another arrangement.

And don't feel guilty!

ThNk u far north

I'm a terrible coward at this kind of thing, and I end up putting it off until I've made things harder, in the past.
Just imagine the relief of not having it hanging over you, though.

I tell myself that people wouldn't think twice about my feelings if they needed to get rid of me.

You have to cultivate that same mindset.

Nice and polite, to the point, no waffling. Done!

Contact the school and tell them you apologise but your priority is your husbands post operative care. It’s stressful enough what you are doing don’t make life more difficult for yourself and do not feel guilty.

Please don’t feel guilty. Do what’s right for you and yours.

I do understand where you are coming from though.

Family first! Don't feel guilty.

They will find someone else but let them know asap so that they can.

Thanks for your kind messages , your support and encouragement
I will contact the school aasp

I live constantly worried about letting people down, I have retired at 69 but have struggled with retirement now with DH concerned about living costs I feel I should go back to work but at the same time have lost my confidence .I feel I am letting everyone down myself included

Good morning,*ruthiek*. You will be more likely to get replies if you start a new thread.

Always family first.
The school wouldn`t give you a second thought if they didn`t want your service.