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Are there visible post viagra effects?

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GreatAuntieBokes Thu 02-Jun-22 09:19:30

A strange question and hopefully not embarrassing nor forbidden. Does anyone know if there are documented visible side effects from taking viagra the next morning, eg enlargement. My partner I suspect is playing away and after his evening out he tries to hide his manhood the next morning. (blush)

Mandrake Thu 02-Jun-22 09:33:48

Not that I've noticed after years of dh using it.

BlueBelle Thu 02-Jun-22 09:35:52

I d have thought there wasn’t much to hide the next morning after a night on the tiles

BigBertha1 Thu 02-Jun-22 09:52:12

Perhaps he had a really nice dream and/or you are looking very alluring in the morning???

Farzanah Thu 02-Jun-22 09:54:13

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grandtanteJE65 Sun 05-Jun-22 15:42:23

Never been with a man who needed viagra, so I can't say, but I have never heard that there are visible side effects.

Has he always tried to hide the erection that most men have in the morning when they first awaken?

Or could he be hiding the fact that he wakens without it?

Could you jokingly ask why he is so shy with you all of a sudden?

Is this the only thing that makes you supect he is "playing away"? The very thought would worry me considerably more than the other.

I feel a frank discussion is called for, but you may not of course. Just make sure he doesn't infect you with anything nasty.

It was said of Lord Darnley (second husband of Mary, Queen of Scots) that "he brought something back to Holyrood House that he had not found there" after a visit to Edinburgh's brothels. That "something" is believed to have been syfillis!

Puzzled Mon 06-Jun-22 12:10:43

It is not unusual for a man to have an erection first thing in the morning.
Maybe the viagra does have after effects, or he doesn't need it as much as you both think.
Maybe he is embarrassed of the effect that you are having on him as you change out of your nightie! If so, don't complain too loudly.
IF you could persuade him to use a restrictor ring, things tend to die down after it is removed; (But that needs to be done over two layers of kitchen paper. Not supposed to keep it on for more than 30 minutes)

kircubbin2000 Mon 06-Jun-22 12:52:49

It can leave him red faced for a few hours.

Puzzled Tue 07-Jun-22 10:38:27

Do you mind him being aroused by you? You shouldn't!
You could help him get over shyness, by complimenting him.
Men tend to get the urge in the morning.

If you are worried that he is playing away, remember no one goes into to town to shop if the corner shop stocks what is needed.
If you know that he is using viagra, presumably, you are providing some of the items on his shopping list.
But could there be a medical problem, causing priapism?
You MUST talk together.

Namsnanny Tue 07-Jun-22 11:52:48

As he takes viagra I would doubt he could natually and spontaneously react in the mornings, as some posters seem to think.

Namsnanny Tue 07-Jun-22 11:59:04

Puzzled I love your anecdote about shops, but to continue on that vein, they aren't always open when you want to visit are they??

PinkCosmos Tue 07-Jun-22 12:03:07

I think the poster is trying to say that she suspects he is playing away and using Viagra in the evening, the effects of which are still visible in the morning.

I have no experience of Viagra or how long it lasts, just surmising

Honeysuckleberries Tue 07-Jun-22 12:11:02

Good grief, the mind boggles. Imagine being on crowded public transport if all the men had used viagra the night before. Standing room only ?

dogsmother Tue 07-Jun-22 13:15:03

No, just a very cheerful chap.

Sara1954 Tue 07-Jun-22 13:45:43

Oh no, I’m disappointed, I thought my neighbor fancied me because whenever we meet early in the morning at the recycling, he has quite an obvious erection, now I know there might be another reason for it.

aonk Tue 07-Jun-22 14:01:56

I don’t want to go into too many details but as far as I’m aware there are no after effects at all. Everything returns to normal after the event if you see what I mean.

Baggytrazzas Tue 26-Jul-22 00:21:02

Sara1954

Oh no, I’m disappointed, I thought my neighbor fancied me because whenever we meet early in the morning at the recycling, he has quite an obvious erection, now I know there might be another reason for it.

HI, you mean he fancies your recycling items ??

Chewbacca Tue 26-Jul-22 00:34:12

Some of these replies have made me laugh out loud! The mind boggles Honeysuckleberries!

Puzzled Sun 31-Jul-22 18:46:09

NAMSNANNY
It is up the shopkeeper what they stock and when they open.
In this context there is probably a lot to be said for following in Arkwright's footsteps!
He is hoping for a profit, even if Nurse Gladys Emmanuel is the only one to put the account into the black.