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Thinking of leaving my husband after 45 years .

(30 Posts)
tanith Sun 11-Sept-22 22:21:10

Better, much much better, do it before you lose courage.

Germanshepherdsmum Sun 11-Sept-22 22:19:29

Yes, peaceful. A weight lifts. It’s liberating. I say this after 23 abusive years but I was much younger than you.

Chocolatelovinggran Sun 11-Sept-22 21:56:26

Better , east12, much better.

Esspee Sun 11-Sept-22 21:56:01

Gloriously peaceful.
Congratulations on making the decision to no longer put up with his abuse.
I wish you well.

east12 Sun 11-Sept-22 21:16:17

I have been married 38 years to a absuive man, stayed because of culture, now I have had enough, he has started drinking more snd always wants to pick a fight,I guess I have stayed as I have always had the best of everything as he earns well , but I don't care anymore, I will be 65 this year., and wonder what life will be like on my own.