Hi Siope and O ,
It is horrendous trying to deal with sexual and physical assaults .
There's a lot of stiff British upper lip with me .
To be honest , my father's care takes up most of my time and is my priority .
Yesterday , illustrated how my father fabricates stories .
I went to the supermarket to get him a selection of different foods as we'd run out and he wasn't eating his favourites .
It took me a while to get there as it was Sunday service .
I thought that he'd be pleased instead he launched into one of his tirades :
He's deeply unhappy about his age , his health , his grandkids ,the house ... most of it - smoking heavily ,refusing to do physio ,not permitting a house move or an extension is entirely of his own making.
OK not his age -that's not his fault !
When he finished ranting and raving about everything - he started on me :
I don't talk to him -it's all I did over Christmas and now the beautiful and expensive holidays that I arranged for him weren't right either .
I ruined them !
News to me !
With an aching head , back and knee - I sobbed .
I went to my neighbour .
She thinks that he's constantly lashing out at me because he's angry and frustrated .
This latest mood really kicked in - in October and seems to be almost relentless .
So perhaps it's similar with the OP's neighbour .
Terrible for them when they were trying to be kind .
I really feel for them .